I have to agree on the Zandra. It is such an awesome bubble gum pink. I love it. It is LE, but is still available on the site. As far as regular MAC, Pink Plaid is a matte, but may be too dark for what you are looking for. There is also Snob, which is a satin. It is fairly close to Zandra, but not as glossy.
For a blush, try MAC's Pink Swoon or Nars' Angelika.
PS-I love that avatar pic