xstephax
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Does anyone else's SO get super moody?
I know it's natural for everyone to get moody no matter what. Especially if you're going through a stressful time in your life, but is it really necessary to take it out on the one you love?
My boyfriend gets moody a lot. And it's understandable because he works a lot, is stressed out (plus he's got a lot of bs to deal with when he's home at the moment). Like I said, it's understandable. But no matter what he ALWAYS takes it out on me. Sometimes he realizes it and sometimes he doesn't. It's so hurtful. And most of the time he won't talk about what's going on. So I'm left to assume things. And naturally I assume I've done or said something wrong (because I can't imagine any other reason he'd be so mean to me). I try not to take it personal but sometimes it's just so hard.
Anyone else have to deal with this? Got any tips on how to deal with it?
I know it's natural for everyone to get moody no matter what. Especially if you're going through a stressful time in your life, but is it really necessary to take it out on the one you love?
My boyfriend gets moody a lot. And it's understandable because he works a lot, is stressed out (plus he's got a lot of bs to deal with when he's home at the moment). Like I said, it's understandable. But no matter what he ALWAYS takes it out on me. Sometimes he realizes it and sometimes he doesn't. It's so hurtful. And most of the time he won't talk about what's going on. So I'm left to assume things. And naturally I assume I've done or said something wrong (because I can't imagine any other reason he'd be so mean to me). I try not to take it personal but sometimes it's just so hard.
Anyone else have to deal with this? Got any tips on how to deal with it?
