iio
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I have this friend who I have know for two years. We just started hanging out together a lot but now that she has this new bf I think it has changed our relationship. Or I should say it has changed my relationship with her. Whenever we go out together for a girls day out her bf always shows up. The thing is...they dont get to see eachother all the time because her parents do not like him at all. I've always wondered why her parents hate her bf and she has never given me a straight answer...now that I have hung out with the both of them and seen his personality I can understand why she is not allowed to be with him.
The first time I met him he was rude...he didnt even say hi or introduce himself to me. He acted like I wasnt there. As the day went by he was making all these sexual comments about asian girls (im asian by the way). My friend would hit him and tell him to shut up etc. So then he goes on about have threesomes with me. Then he talks about my bf who he has never met saying how small his penis is and that his is thick and big. I was so disgusted!! He goes on talking about his sexual life with my friend in details and I mean every little nasty detail that I didnt want to hear about. He asks me if my (you know what) was tight and I was just taken back by that and didnt say anything to him and he was like "im sure you are because most asian girls have tight...." etc. etc. and my friend was just sitting there laughing and hitting him. We were at the mall and I guess he tried to touch my ass b/c I was walking in front of them and my friend pushed his hands away before he can do it.
We were at the mall and the whole time they were kissing and rubbing eachother. Then he would play around and touch her thing down there and she would get mad and hit him on the shoulder. I tried to brush the whole situation off...but just that whole day of spending time with them I was sick to my stomach. I dont know why my friend is still with him!! all her other friends told her to just leave him but she said she cant because she "loves him".
The second time I met up with her I thought we were just gonna hang out together...and there he was again! and in the same awkard position with his dirty talk and mean comments. She said that he is never this way with her other friends and I guess he is comfortable saying these things because Im more open. I am an open person when it comes to talking about sex, relationships, etc. but NOT like that! Everything he does is so vulgar, rude, and just NASTY!
The only time she gets to be with him is when she is with her friends and I feel that she uses me to see him. So now I dont answer her calls anymore. I dont know what to say to her b/c I never told her how I really feel...and I guess she is oblivious to what I may think about her bf after all that he has said to me. I told my bf about this and he doesnt want me hanging out with her or ever want to meet her. I thought that she would do better but I dont think I can hang out with her if she doesnt defend me from the things her bf says to me.
I think that if I had a bf like that who treated my friends in that way I would dump his nasty ass.
I mean have any of you ever met your friend's bf and end up hating him?
The first time I met him he was rude...he didnt even say hi or introduce himself to me. He acted like I wasnt there. As the day went by he was making all these sexual comments about asian girls (im asian by the way). My friend would hit him and tell him to shut up etc. So then he goes on about have threesomes with me. Then he talks about my bf who he has never met saying how small his penis is and that his is thick and big. I was so disgusted!! He goes on talking about his sexual life with my friend in details and I mean every little nasty detail that I didnt want to hear about. He asks me if my (you know what) was tight and I was just taken back by that and didnt say anything to him and he was like "im sure you are because most asian girls have tight...." etc. etc. and my friend was just sitting there laughing and hitting him. We were at the mall and I guess he tried to touch my ass b/c I was walking in front of them and my friend pushed his hands away before he can do it.
We were at the mall and the whole time they were kissing and rubbing eachother. Then he would play around and touch her thing down there and she would get mad and hit him on the shoulder. I tried to brush the whole situation off...but just that whole day of spending time with them I was sick to my stomach. I dont know why my friend is still with him!! all her other friends told her to just leave him but she said she cant because she "loves him".
The second time I met up with her I thought we were just gonna hang out together...and there he was again! and in the same awkard position with his dirty talk and mean comments. She said that he is never this way with her other friends and I guess he is comfortable saying these things because Im more open. I am an open person when it comes to talking about sex, relationships, etc. but NOT like that! Everything he does is so vulgar, rude, and just NASTY!
The only time she gets to be with him is when she is with her friends and I feel that she uses me to see him. So now I dont answer her calls anymore. I dont know what to say to her b/c I never told her how I really feel...and I guess she is oblivious to what I may think about her bf after all that he has said to me. I told my bf about this and he doesnt want me hanging out with her or ever want to meet her. I thought that she would do better but I dont think I can hang out with her if she doesnt defend me from the things her bf says to me.
I think that if I had a bf like that who treated my friends in that way I would dump his nasty ass.
I mean have any of you ever met your friend's bf and end up hating him?
