i'm NC 40 and asian too. i like natural brown colours on myself so i live by MAC honesty- its a tad darker than my skin tone, so looks kinda natural and not too overboard. I then use brown eyeliner, and black eyeliner on top of that.
I don't use blush but i love MAC's MSFs. i find that glissade is gorgeous for a slight pink glow, while shimpange is great for glow, and shooting star for a bronzy look
HTH