KAIA
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I've been with my bf since january 2008, and we've been living together since may last year. BUT i keep thinking about
a guy I used to date, his name is Pete.
Pete and I met in highscool (year 2000) we studied together just for a year, and he was a funny friend. we were not
interested in each other. Time passed by and we accidentally met again back in december 2007 in some club (I was 22),
we recognized each other, we exchanged e-mails, right away we started to chat, the very same week we decided to go out
for a drink and we got intimate, THAT'S were all started... we were chatting countless hours every day. had great sex,
I loved to spent time with him, and I'm sure he did too, were seeing each other every day, and so... around the same
time Something very similar happenned again to me, I saw Jonathan (my current bf) we both studied together in college
for about two years, always liked him phisically, but never got to talk to each other because we had couples in that
time, but we were alone when we saw each other and he was very hot still... So I was completely confused! I was alone
just dating these 2 guys I really liked, I met them before so they were not strangers, and It was time for me to decide,
who I wanted to keep seeing...
Peter knew about Jonathan, I talked to him about it, that's when he decided to walk away, he sent an e-mail saying that
he was confused because his high-school sweetheart (Elise) was coming back to my country and he wanted to spent time with
her, but in the other hand it was me, but he was like - you're into Jonthan and I know you guys gonna end up together-
he wrote me 2 songs, gave them to me and said goodbye we won't see each other as 'THAT' but we still good friends.
I agreed to that, a week later Jonathan ask me if I wanted to be hid GF and I said yes, since then we've been together...
But I don't know what the HELL HAPPENED!!! that a little after that I started to think about Pete, to the point that
it was obvious, so obvious that Jonathan noticed it, and I came clean, I told him that I'm so sorry I hate lying but that
is the reality I keep thinking about Pete..and Jonathan said that he loves me so much, he's gonna help me to forget him, I
tried to do so as well... how? Well, I stop talking to him, not seeing him and at all, but that just didn't help, as soon
as I was sure I was over him, I would meet him up (accidentally) in a restaurant or wherever, and I would feel sad again and
of course Jonathan notices that all the time.
But I'm so stupid!
Last week, I had a confrontation with my biological father, I told him how I felt about him (on he abandoned me and etc)
and it really helped, kinda like a therapy i felt completely relieved after that, so in my stupid ass mind I thought it
would do the same with Pete, I wrote him an email, telling him how I felt about him, and that I'm sure he doesn;t like me
back, but I just wanted to let this feelings out... he answered me back, he said:
'I'm shocked right now, I know it feels f*cked up when your feelings are not corresponded'---- so yeah! he pretty much
confirmed but I thought but I didn't wanted to accept.
So I answered back, I said is ok, he doesn't have to feel pity for me I'll be alright.... and he said we could be friends still.... but he didn't answered me something I asked....i said: 'Well, just to end up everything with this...
Am I that f*ucked up for you?''
He didn't answered, he would answer other things, except that.. WHY?
By the way he knows Jonathan and I are still a 'couple'
a guy I used to date, his name is Pete.
Pete and I met in highscool (year 2000) we studied together just for a year, and he was a funny friend. we were not
interested in each other. Time passed by and we accidentally met again back in december 2007 in some club (I was 22),
we recognized each other, we exchanged e-mails, right away we started to chat, the very same week we decided to go out
for a drink and we got intimate, THAT'S were all started... we were chatting countless hours every day. had great sex,
I loved to spent time with him, and I'm sure he did too, were seeing each other every day, and so... around the same
time Something very similar happenned again to me, I saw Jonathan (my current bf) we both studied together in college
for about two years, always liked him phisically, but never got to talk to each other because we had couples in that
time, but we were alone when we saw each other and he was very hot still... So I was completely confused! I was alone
just dating these 2 guys I really liked, I met them before so they were not strangers, and It was time for me to decide,
who I wanted to keep seeing...
Peter knew about Jonathan, I talked to him about it, that's when he decided to walk away, he sent an e-mail saying that
he was confused because his high-school sweetheart (Elise) was coming back to my country and he wanted to spent time with
her, but in the other hand it was me, but he was like - you're into Jonthan and I know you guys gonna end up together-
he wrote me 2 songs, gave them to me and said goodbye we won't see each other as 'THAT' but we still good friends.
I agreed to that, a week later Jonathan ask me if I wanted to be hid GF and I said yes, since then we've been together...
But I don't know what the HELL HAPPENED!!! that a little after that I started to think about Pete, to the point that
it was obvious, so obvious that Jonathan noticed it, and I came clean, I told him that I'm so sorry I hate lying but that
is the reality I keep thinking about Pete..and Jonathan said that he loves me so much, he's gonna help me to forget him, I
tried to do so as well... how? Well, I stop talking to him, not seeing him and at all, but that just didn't help, as soon
as I was sure I was over him, I would meet him up (accidentally) in a restaurant or wherever, and I would feel sad again and
of course Jonathan notices that all the time.
But I'm so stupid!
Last week, I had a confrontation with my biological father, I told him how I felt about him (on he abandoned me and etc)
and it really helped, kinda like a therapy i felt completely relieved after that, so in my stupid ass mind I thought it
would do the same with Pete, I wrote him an email, telling him how I felt about him, and that I'm sure he doesn;t like me
back, but I just wanted to let this feelings out... he answered me back, he said:
'I'm shocked right now, I know it feels f*cked up when your feelings are not corresponded'---- so yeah! he pretty much
confirmed but I thought but I didn't wanted to accept.
So I answered back, I said is ok, he doesn't have to feel pity for me I'll be alright.... and he said we could be friends still.... but he didn't answered me something I asked....i said: 'Well, just to end up everything with this...
Am I that f*ucked up for you?''
He didn't answered, he would answer other things, except that.. WHY?
By the way he knows Jonathan and I are still a 'couple'