georgi
Well-known member
Hi all, i didnt even know this part of the forum was here!
ok time to get personal as i figure this will hopefully be the source of advice im looking for
Im 23 and have never had an orgasm.
In the past sex for me was all about pleasing the guy, not myself, and i just wanted to look good, not let go, so was a bit conscious
In the past i have also been on anti-depressants for a while which i thought was what was making me not have them, but i have been off them for 3 years now
I have 2 amazing viabrators that i love, i get so so close to an orgasm (i think) but i just never get the 'release', its just intense and intense (sometimes toooo intense) and then when i guess other women would orgasm the intense and good feelings fade away and it just starts to hurt
I thought this may have been the orgasm and its just not as powerful as i thought it would be....but it isnt
I am really confident with myself and my body now and not at all up tight during sex, ive read books about orgasms but just cant get it, i 'know' my body and what i like, im usually not 'frustrated' about not having one as i dont really know what im missing out on exactly, but it is a bit disheartening at times and sometimes i think i'll never have one and get a bit sad about that because i feel its part of being a woman!
has anyone else had a similar experience or know what i could do?
would going to a doctor help?
ok time to get personal as i figure this will hopefully be the source of advice im looking for
Im 23 and have never had an orgasm.
In the past sex for me was all about pleasing the guy, not myself, and i just wanted to look good, not let go, so was a bit conscious
In the past i have also been on anti-depressants for a while which i thought was what was making me not have them, but i have been off them for 3 years now
I have 2 amazing viabrators that i love, i get so so close to an orgasm (i think) but i just never get the 'release', its just intense and intense (sometimes toooo intense) and then when i guess other women would orgasm the intense and good feelings fade away and it just starts to hurt
I thought this may have been the orgasm and its just not as powerful as i thought it would be....but it isnt
I am really confident with myself and my body now and not at all up tight during sex, ive read books about orgasms but just cant get it, i 'know' my body and what i like, im usually not 'frustrated' about not having one as i dont really know what im missing out on exactly, but it is a bit disheartening at times and sometimes i think i'll never have one and get a bit sad about that because i feel its part of being a woman!
has anyone else had a similar experience or know what i could do?
would going to a doctor help?