Sending a surprise gift to a member

[shygirl]

I read a member's blog and she is having a really, really tough time. She doesn't know me. I want to cheer her up and send her a surprise gift. I'm not sure if she has PayPal. Is it creepy to do something like this?
What's the best way to send a stranger a gift without freaking them out?

 

[Eye<3Colour]

wow thats really sweet of you. im not sure what advice to give you, but i just wanted to let you know how nice and thoughtful you are

 

[user3]

I say just let her know you are thinking of her and ask her if she mind if you sent her something via snail mail or Pay pal.
I realize that if she declines it might hurt your feelings but keep in mind she might just feel odd about handing out her info.
I am sure either way she will find you just thinking about her is very nice of you.

 

[shygirl]

Thanks for the tips! Yeah, that's why I would prefer to send something via PayPal so she doesn't have to send her personal info.

 

[AllINeedIsMac]

Hey Shygirl, I think I know who your thinking of. I PM'd you.