so sad about my mac :(

[TRES TEAL]

ok, i have no idea where a post like this belongs, so feel free to move it , but , the other day my bf's mother and i got in an argument over sumthing rediculous, it was basically her being unreasonable .... afterwards i left , then when i came home i went in my makeup case and she spilled out all my pigments ,closed the case, and shook it all up so my only skinfiinish shattered and all my blushes and eye shadows shatterd too ... i really am about to cry because it took me 4 years to collect the 20 pigment samples, 3 eyeshadows and 1 skinfinish because im not even 21 yet and i have a 3yr old child i support . its not like i can just replace these things either because im spending all the money ive got on getting my son everything he needs for back to school ... im so depressed and dont know what to do , the only makeup i have now is a covergirl foundation and 5 mac lipglosses ... it took me forever to collect the items i had and i really cherished them because i worked hgard to get them and i just feel not pretty with out my pigments and stuff...i dont know wut to do

 

[ette]

OMG I'm so sorry. That was more of an ethical issue than based on your MAC, how rude of her to do that!! I don't really know what to tell you to do other than the fact that that was SO uncalled for of her...she should offer to pay for those things.

 

[Sabrunka]

WHAT the FUCK?! Wow what a stubborn woman! At her age she should know not to be so immature and stupid. That is horrible, I would go right up to her and force her to at least buy back half the stuff she ruined. Tell your boyfriend about it and see what he does! I'm so sorry, wow I would be miserable and crying.

 

[Jaim]

Aww, that's horrible. I'm sorry to hear that.

That's pretty immature for a woman to do!

 

[MAC_Pixie04]

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Originally Posted by TRES TEAL ok, i have no idea where a post like this belongs, so feel free to move it , but , the other day my bf's mother and i got in an argument over sumthing rediculous, it was basically her being unreasonable .... afterwards i left , then when i came home i went in my makeup case and she spilled out all my pigments ,closed the case, and shook it all up so my only skinfiinish shattered and all my blushes and eye shadows shatterd too ... i really am about to cry because it took me 4 years to collect the 20 pigment samples, 3 eyeshadows and 1 skinfinish because im not even 21 yet and i have a 3yr old child i support . its not like i can just replace these things either because im spending all the money ive got on getting my son everything he needs for back to school ... im so depressed and dont know what to do , the only makeup i have now is a covergirl foundation and 5 mac lipglosses ... it took me forever to collect the items i had and i really cherished them because i worked hgard to get them and i just feel not pretty with out my pigments and stuff...i dont know wut to do

how immature and childish of her! It's obvious she knew how much your stuff meant to you, that's why she attacked it. I would tell her that you didn't appreciate what she did and that you expect full compensation for the items she damaged. She'd probably do the same if you did something like that to something of hers. And if she doesn't, get your man involved. It's his mother so he could rationalize with her better than you could. And if that doesn't work...just set her on fire =)<--totally joking about that last part lol

 

[meagannn]

ohhhh I am veryyyy sorry.
=(

*hugs*

that is very unreasonable of her. I can't believe a grown woman would do that either.

 

[mzcelaneous]

Good lord. WTF is wrong with her. Karma will get back to her one day....

I'm so sorry about your MAC-up

 

[TRES TEAL]

i knew u guys on here would understand ... i told my bf and my friends and all they had to say was, so wut, its just makeup ...ughh, that really pisses me off . thnx every1 , i cant believe even my bf doesnt even seem to care about it like its not a big deal at all , but to me it is

 

[princess]

OMG she shook everything in your traincase??? So sorry to hear about that, she's so unreasonable!

 

[pumpkincat210]

damn. you know i feel like donating a sample to you because that is just ass of her to do that.

 

[mrstucker]

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Originally Posted by pumpkincat210 damn. you know i feel like donating a sample to you because that is just ass of her to do that.

Me too! I've had people help me out in the past, and I believe in paying it forward...PM me your addy, and I'd love to send a 'care package'...

 

[TRES TEAL]

ya it was, and all it was over was a stupid matress she brought me to put on my sons bed and i told her i didnt wanna put it on cuz it was way too big and none of the sheets i have would fit ... she didnt even pay for the mattress and my feelings are really hurt

 

[Cruella]

What a colossal bitch! That's mean of your friends to say "it's just makeup." It doesn't matter what it is - it was YOUR'S and she had absolutely no right to do that. If your boyfriend doesn't go to bat for you regarding this, I'd really question his feelings for you. That's just shitty.

 

[queenofdisaster]

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Originally Posted by TRES TEAL i knew u guys on here would understand ... i told my bf and my friends and all they had to say was, so wut, its just makeup ...ughh, that really pisses me off . thnx every1 , i cant believe even my bf doesnt even seem to care about it like its not a big deal at all , but to me it is

it's not just makeup. i had to explain to my hubby that mac to me, is like harley davidsons to him. (he's crazy about them). it's not cheap and it's ok for it to be something that you're passionate about. i hate how ppl think it's so insignificant.

i can't believe she would do something like that to you. i'd be so upset i'd probably want to punch her in the eye.

 

[queenofdisaster]

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Originally Posted by mrstucker Me too! I've had people help me out in the past, and I believe in paying it forward...PM me your addy, and I'd love to send a 'care package'...

seriously, me too. i wouldn't mind helping you rebuild your collection.

tell us your skintone and your favorite colors and stuff and i'll see what i come up with! you shouldn't have to go through this without support!!!

 

[Glitziegal]

What a bitch that was so immature.
I would ban her from seeing your little one until she replaces what she ruined.

 

[Amethyst_beauty]

Quote:

Originally Posted by TRES TEAL ok, i have no idea where a post like this belongs, so feel free to move it , but , the other day my bf's mother and i got in an argument over sumthing rediculous, it was basically her being unreasonable .... afterwards i left , then when i came home i went in my makeup case and she spilled out all my pigments ,closed the case, and shook it all up so my only skinfiinish shattered and all my blushes and eye shadows shatterd too ... i really am about to cry because it took me 4 years to collect the 20 pigment samples, 3 eyeshadows and 1 skinfinish because im not even 21 yet and i have a 3yr old child i support . its not like i can just replace these things either because im spending all the money ive got on getting my son everything he needs for back to school ... im so depressed and dont know what to do , the only makeup i have now is a covergirl foundation and 5 mac lipglosses ... it took me forever to collect the items i had and i really cherished them because i worked hgard to get them and i just feel not pretty with out my pigments and stuff...i dont know wut to do

You live in NJ...file a complaint with the police dept. for destruction of property...she shouldn't be permitted to get away with it.

I'm guessing that your current BF isn't the father of your son and that the three of you (yourself, son & BF) live with his parents/Mom?

If BF isn't the father of your son, his attitude and lack of interest speaks VOLUMES...do you REALLY want to waste another minute of your life with someone like him??? (And his bitch of a Mom by default???)

 

[GalleyGirl]

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Originally Posted by TRES TEAL i knew u guys on here would understand ... i told my bf and my friends and all they had to say was, so wut, its just makeup ...ughh, that really pisses me off . thnx every1 , i cant believe even my bf doesnt even seem to care about it like its not a big deal at all , but to me it is

Thats horrible. A) That stuff is expensive, B) A lot of it is irreplacable if it was LE, and C) It doesn't matter what it is, you shouldn't have to worry that your possesions are going to be vandalized just because of an argument. Even if your boyfriend thinks "its just makeup," he should understand point C. I'm sorry

 

[TRES TEAL]

omg i cant even believe how nice u guys are.. im getting all teary reading this stuff ... its really nice to be able to tell this to ppl who dont think im insaine for being hurt over makeup ...im not even fussy about colors atall, and my skintone is about the same as yurs queen ofdisaster ... i would love to send sumthing as a thank you to any1 who decides to help me so make sure i get yur address aswell ... thank you guys all sooo much for understanding where im coming from ... this woman is the grandmother of my child and i didnt even get a sorry from her so it is pretty hurtfull ... the responses i was getting from my friends were starting to make me feel crazy for being so upset , but u guys are making me feel better because u guys would feel the same way

 

[Juneplum]

omg i am SO sorry to hear this

what an awful thing to do

what pigment samples, shadows and msfs were they? i'm sedning u a pm cos i'm sending u some stuff!!!!