So I've been dating my guy for almost 4 years now and I'm starting to feel....stuck in a rut. We don't do the things we used to or spend much quality time at all, which is pretty sad considering we live together. I've talked to him before about what quality time means to me (more than just sitting in the same room) and I want to tell him that it feels like he's losing me, but I feel like that may be very harsh. I work retail so my hours are ridiculous right now and I hardly have money to spend on a trip plus I probably won't get a Saturday off until next year. His only off days are Saturday and Sunday and his finances are tight as well. I try to suggest free things to do , or even ask him to accompany me to events I am invited to, but he seems so disinterested and we end up fighting about him (not) coming.
What do you do when you feel you're just treading water? I love him alot and while I don't see leaving as a possibility, I alos don't see staying this way either.
What do you do when you feel you're just treading water? I love him alot and while I don't see leaving as a possibility, I alos don't see staying this way either.