JULIA
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My birthday is coming up in a few weeks so my boyfriend has taken it upon himself to plan something big. I don't know the specifics of course, but he said it's going to be the best birthday I've ever had. He's a very romantic, thoughtful and sweet person which is what I fell in love with. I don't mind it one bit. The problem? Someone told him what he's doing for my birthday is too much considering we've only been dating for 4 months and now he's having second thoughts. What's the problem? He's doing something from the heart...Why should the age of our relationship make a difference? What, just because we've been together for such a short time we're supposed to settle for boring dates and lame plans? Ugh, people. Why rain on someone's parade?
When do you think it's okay to do big extravagant things in a relationship? I know people who are six years into being together and they're boring and do nothing. At least we're exciting.
When do you think it's okay to do big extravagant things in a relationship? I know people who are six years into being together and they're boring and do nothing. At least we're exciting.