ashley8119
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Okay, so this started back in my sophomore year of high school. I used to talk to lots of the guys, never sleep with them or anything, but eventually they all started to fall for me and then when we were about to become official, I decided that I really didn't want to be in a relationship. Then for awhile, it stopped. Then I reconnected with an old friend and we pretty much fell head over heels for each other but things had to end because of a relapse in his cocaine addiction. I've casually dated three guys since the one I fell for, and now I have an upcoming two prospects that I'm started to become interested in. But, I know it's going to be like the rest. I think I'm interested, the guy starts to fall, he asks me out, I suddenly freak out because I don't want a relationship.
I don't understand why I always do this. It's like, I want a relationship until I almost have one, then I totally panic and decide that I don't want one after all. People have tried analyzing this by saying that I'm "afraid" to love, and that's so not the reason. I've loved once before, I'm not afraid of it. I know I will love again someday. I just really don't know why I'm like this. It's kind of annoying.
I don't understand why I always do this. It's like, I want a relationship until I almost have one, then I totally panic and decide that I don't want one after all. People have tried analyzing this by saying that I'm "afraid" to love, and that's so not the reason. I've loved once before, I'm not afraid of it. I know I will love again someday. I just really don't know why I'm like this. It's kind of annoying.