I'd say don't blow dry it, instead towel dry it (if it's super wet, paper towels will pick up more excess water than regular bathroom towels) until it's damp, then put product in it.
You'd need some texture to it, I like Kenra's Texturizing Taffy. It's similar to a pomade, but I've never put too much in (like i have with pomade- too much and suddenly it looks like you haven't washed your hair in ages). Just make it peicy with the texture taffy and let it finish drying. If you need volume, you might want to try a root lift with it, but that depends on how your hair is naturally.
And btw: I love the look!! Nice choice