banjobama
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The title says it all!!
FYI I'm 23 and married, I don't have any kids. I got married this past April, so eight months ago. I love my husband very much, he is my best friend. I don't regret getting married, I know I made the right choice in that department.
Lately I just feel like my life is so.. boring. When I was 18-19-20, I was really spontaneous, and going out a lot. I was a person that people liked to invite places and do things with. (At least I think/thought so!)
I had a lot of adventures, and I feel like that fun, spontaneous time of my life is over, and it makes me sad. Part of this is because I've moved away from my friends, but I've made a few friends here and the exciting feeling I used to get when I thought about going out is gone.
I know nobody can party all the time, and eventually life and work and family and bills will take priority, but is this how my life is going to be forever, always wishing to go back to the "glory days?"
I know I'm not ready to have kids yet, because I still kind of feel like a kid myself. But what if I still feel like this in ten years? My life will be passing me by, and I'll be the equivalent of that woman you see in the liquor store wearing a bleach blonde mullet and acid wash jean jacket, living in the past.
I hope this made sense. Any thoughts anyone has on the subject will be greatly appreciated.
FYI I'm 23 and married, I don't have any kids. I got married this past April, so eight months ago. I love my husband very much, he is my best friend. I don't regret getting married, I know I made the right choice in that department.
Lately I just feel like my life is so.. boring. When I was 18-19-20, I was really spontaneous, and going out a lot. I was a person that people liked to invite places and do things with. (At least I think/thought so!)
I had a lot of adventures, and I feel like that fun, spontaneous time of my life is over, and it makes me sad. Part of this is because I've moved away from my friends, but I've made a few friends here and the exciting feeling I used to get when I thought about going out is gone.
I know nobody can party all the time, and eventually life and work and family and bills will take priority, but is this how my life is going to be forever, always wishing to go back to the "glory days?"
I know I'm not ready to have kids yet, because I still kind of feel like a kid myself. But what if I still feel like this in ten years? My life will be passing me by, and I'll be the equivalent of that woman you see in the liquor store wearing a bleach blonde mullet and acid wash jean jacket, living in the past.
I hope this made sense. Any thoughts anyone has on the subject will be greatly appreciated.