Here are my suggestions...warning it's long!
Eyeshadows: Greens and purples are the easiest to add for a pop of color without being too bold. You might try Juxt, Swimming, or Greensmoke for greens and Satellite Dreams, Beautiful Iris, or Shale (which is a really pretty neutral plum) for purples. Golden yellows can also add a bit of color, but being neutral-ish. Try Goldmine or Gorgeous Gold. I think oranges and bronzes would look beautiful on you and orange is really easy to tone down (just blend in a pale neutral like Dazzlelight). Try Orange, Amber Lights, Juiced, or Tempting (I love Tempting!).
Eyeliners: Liners are great because they're quick, but I really love using my shadows with a little mixing medium as liners, too. Any of the shadows above could easily be used as a liner by using the shadow wet (or with a mixing medium). I also love using pigments (again with mixing medium). I would suggest buying samples of bright pigments (there are quite a few sellers here on Specktra) to see which colors you really like and then you can invest in the full-size version of those. Otherwise, checkout Fluidlines like Macroviolet, Waveline, or Shade, as these are colorful, but will not detract from your shadows.
Lips: If you're doing a brighter eye, I personally would opt for a nude/toned down lip. I really love using pale pinks with a bit of gloss. You might check out Politely Pink or Plink! l/s with Gemshine lipgelee or clear lipgloss. You could also pull of a nude really well. I'm estimating by your coloring that Myth, Hug Me, Fleshpot, or Gel l/s with Viva Glam V l/g. Other great neutral looking glosses are Underage, Prrr, Oyster Girl, and C-Thru. And I think Bare Slimshine is a MUST!! The great neutral lipliners are Spice, Subculture, and Oak.
If you want a bright lip, the Slimshines are great because they provide a pop without being overpowering. You might also try Sweetie or Sophisto l/s or Pink Poodle or Lychee Luxe l/g.
Cheeks: Dollymix Sheertone Shimmer Blush is fantastic for a sheer, pop of color. My favorite blush is Mocha...it gives just a nice, subdued pink flush. Springsheen is also really pretty...it gives a gorgeous glow and I think is a pretty good dupe of NARS Orgasm.
Whew, I'm outta breath! I tried to give you stuff from the perm. line, but I would highly suggest the LE collections for fun and bright colors. HTH!!