mocha_queen
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I ended things with my bf of 2 years back in January for not having any time for me and not being supportive and loving.
He would not talk to me on the phone anymore and just make playful but mean jabs at me and blame it on the stress of not having enough money.
Anyway, we had been on and off for 6 months and I assumed that this time would be no different and that he would realize his mistake and come back and apologize. He did not.
I found out later that he was seeing this other girl and when we resumed talking on the phone, he confessed he was only talking to her so he could move on from me but was finding it very difficult to do so because he loves me so much.
I decided to go visit him (he lives an hour away) in Feb and we ended up getting back together (made love etc.) I could feel like he was putting a lot more effort into the relationship and I felt good about it.
He and I were talking on the phone last week and he asked if I had slept with anyone else while we were broken up ( I did not) but it made me suspicious and I confronted him till he admitted that he had slept with that girl once and then never again. (she moved to another state now)
But I am furious! I told him that I want nothing to do with him. He argued that since we were broken up that he was allowed to sleep with whoever he wanted. What I don't understand is that if he loved me so much...why would he go sleep with someone else? And I am mad that he did not share this information with me before we got back together.
Am I wrong? He wants to work on the relationship, but I just feel betrayed.
Help me ladies!
He would not talk to me on the phone anymore and just make playful but mean jabs at me and blame it on the stress of not having enough money.
Anyway, we had been on and off for 6 months and I assumed that this time would be no different and that he would realize his mistake and come back and apologize. He did not.
I found out later that he was seeing this other girl and when we resumed talking on the phone, he confessed he was only talking to her so he could move on from me but was finding it very difficult to do so because he loves me so much.
I decided to go visit him (he lives an hour away) in Feb and we ended up getting back together (made love etc.) I could feel like he was putting a lot more effort into the relationship and I felt good about it.
He and I were talking on the phone last week and he asked if I had slept with anyone else while we were broken up ( I did not) but it made me suspicious and I confronted him till he admitted that he had slept with that girl once and then never again. (she moved to another state now)
But I am furious! I told him that I want nothing to do with him. He argued that since we were broken up that he was allowed to sleep with whoever he wanted. What I don't understand is that if he loved me so much...why would he go sleep with someone else? And I am mad that he did not share this information with me before we got back together.
Am I wrong? He wants to work on the relationship, but I just feel betrayed.
Help me ladies!