urbanlilyfairy
Well-known member
slightly long rant ...sorry for the run on sentences and mispellings ...im moody =/
ok well obviously I am a plus sized woman. I am 5 ft even and at 5 months pg I am at 251. I am about a size 20 or so(*pre pg i was an 18) ..I normally go around feeling good about myself ..i do my hair..i put on my makeup and I don't go around wearing mumus...although sometimes in my house I do lol..but what im saying is I try to wear stylish clothes and feel good about myself and am normally not that self concioues.
But since being pregnant I have been quite self conciouess (sorry on the spelling lol ) I have pretty much only expanded in my belly which is expected the rest of me looks like it did before well my feet look a bit puffy too. People that know me can tell that yes I am expecting maybe strangers think im just even bigger than before. I personally do feel like i can see my pg belly it might not be poking up and all at attention but it has definetly gotten rounder and more firm and my two belly thing is pretty much nearly gone and forming into one big billy lol.
ok so what happend to day it had to to with a Freaking Parking space. I was on the military base here in Aviano, Italy. ON base there is 2 desiganted handicapped/expectant mother parking on each row in the parking lot.(for the preggo ladies there is no sign to put up u just park) so i decided to use this spot today since It was raining ..it was cool outside..i was wearing flip flops ..my clothes where moist because I was previously outside directing my husband while he was backing out a big moving truck in a small street here in italy so i got a little bit wet in the process... I got in my car to go pick up 20 euro from the atm on base so my hubby could get gas in the moving truck (we were picking up some nursery furniture !) ..I was stopping for just that to get money out of an atm.
I go in the parking lot look for a spot and there is pretty much not any parking neither close by or all the way in the back..The only spot I saw close too me was one of the handicapped/expectant mother spots clearly marked for both uses. I pull in to the spot. Rummage through my purse for about 2 mins before getting out looking for my debit card. I walk up the atm ..and here comes this clearly skinny yet pregnant woman practically running up too me ..she comes by and says " EXxxxxcuuuuuuuse me mam ...but are you even pregnant?" It caught me off guard and I was a little startled because she spoke so loudly and her tone of voice was sord of patronizing and rude.... So with my surprised and slightly embarassed face i say umh yeah...and she goes oh and turns around and walks away ...some guy she knew that was walking in turns to her and says why did you ask that lady that ..and i could hear as they are walking into the store that she was explaining to him they have parking for pregnant woman and she was going to park there.
I hurridely got my money walked to my car and just began to cry. I felt so stupid for parking there as I have wanted to park there before especially one day that was super hott and I was tired from driving around town and I just wanted to run into the commissary and get a damn snapple..but I didn't park there because I thought well im ok I can walk a lil further..but today when i did park there i got shit for it.
anyway im just bleh atm and wanted to rant.
I wish I would of had told the woman something like wtf bitch you want me to pee on a stick and prove it to you ..jUst because im not showing doesn't mean I don't get as tired as other skinny pregnant bitches out there lol..
ok sorry for the curseword (i love skinny pregnant people too sorry ..just this woman hurt my feelings ) =/
/rant off
ok well obviously I am a plus sized woman. I am 5 ft even and at 5 months pg I am at 251. I am about a size 20 or so(*pre pg i was an 18) ..I normally go around feeling good about myself ..i do my hair..i put on my makeup and I don't go around wearing mumus...although sometimes in my house I do lol..but what im saying is I try to wear stylish clothes and feel good about myself and am normally not that self concioues.
But since being pregnant I have been quite self conciouess (sorry on the spelling lol ) I have pretty much only expanded in my belly which is expected the rest of me looks like it did before well my feet look a bit puffy too. People that know me can tell that yes I am expecting maybe strangers think im just even bigger than before. I personally do feel like i can see my pg belly it might not be poking up and all at attention but it has definetly gotten rounder and more firm and my two belly thing is pretty much nearly gone and forming into one big billy lol.
ok so what happend to day it had to to with a Freaking Parking space. I was on the military base here in Aviano, Italy. ON base there is 2 desiganted handicapped/expectant mother parking on each row in the parking lot.(for the preggo ladies there is no sign to put up u just park) so i decided to use this spot today since It was raining ..it was cool outside..i was wearing flip flops ..my clothes where moist because I was previously outside directing my husband while he was backing out a big moving truck in a small street here in italy so i got a little bit wet in the process... I got in my car to go pick up 20 euro from the atm on base so my hubby could get gas in the moving truck (we were picking up some nursery furniture !) ..I was stopping for just that to get money out of an atm.
I go in the parking lot look for a spot and there is pretty much not any parking neither close by or all the way in the back..The only spot I saw close too me was one of the handicapped/expectant mother spots clearly marked for both uses. I pull in to the spot. Rummage through my purse for about 2 mins before getting out looking for my debit card. I walk up the atm ..and here comes this clearly skinny yet pregnant woman practically running up too me ..she comes by and says " EXxxxxcuuuuuuuse me mam ...but are you even pregnant?" It caught me off guard and I was a little startled because she spoke so loudly and her tone of voice was sord of patronizing and rude.... So with my surprised and slightly embarassed face i say umh yeah...and she goes oh and turns around and walks away ...some guy she knew that was walking in turns to her and says why did you ask that lady that ..and i could hear as they are walking into the store that she was explaining to him they have parking for pregnant woman and she was going to park there.
I hurridely got my money walked to my car and just began to cry. I felt so stupid for parking there as I have wanted to park there before especially one day that was super hott and I was tired from driving around town and I just wanted to run into the commissary and get a damn snapple..but I didn't park there because I thought well im ok I can walk a lil further..but today when i did park there i got shit for it.
anyway im just bleh atm and wanted to rant.
I wish I would of had told the woman something like wtf bitch you want me to pee on a stick and prove it to you ..jUst because im not showing doesn't mean I don't get as tired as other skinny pregnant bitches out there lol..
ok sorry for the curseword (i love skinny pregnant people too sorry ..just this woman hurt my feelings ) =/
/rant off
