Jeannine8
Well-known member
I just need to vent.
My boyfriend of a little more than a year just told me he needed a break ealier. Backstory - We're long distance, I was always hesitant to even go there because, well, it's long distance. He tried more than anyone has ever tried to get with me, and believe, he tried hard. He won me over and convinced me it could work. So fast foward a year to now, it's been wonderful and we've even talked seriously about the future, my family pretty much thinks we're going to end up getting married this year lol, but this past month he's been very stressed and just not himself, he'd tell me it was because of a change in work along with a few other issues. But this past week was something else, he's been very stressed and impatient and frustrated. We went from talking all the time to short frustrated conversations.
He kept saying things and hinting things, even told me he didn't want to come and stay in a few weeks like he was supposed to, along with other stuff that just left me scratching my head wondering where my boyfriend was and what he did to him. We kept arguing over everything and tonight I asked him to just tell me what's up because wondering what's going on all the time isn't fun, plus it's always nice to know if he was actually coming or not to plan it out, being that it's so close to the date. Long story short, after a couple hours of not really giving me much, he told me he wanted a break, of two weeks at that. To which I was like, what is that supposed to mean? To me it just felt like a break up, without really going all out and breaking up.
I get wanting time or space, but I'm also not about waiting around for a couple weeks wondering what's up or what someone else decides. I'm just not feeling the whole situation, it feels so half assed to me.
Okay, that's kinda long, but I just wanted to vent and maybe get some advice... this whole situation sucks.
My boyfriend of a little more than a year just told me he needed a break ealier. Backstory - We're long distance, I was always hesitant to even go there because, well, it's long distance. He tried more than anyone has ever tried to get with me, and believe, he tried hard. He won me over and convinced me it could work. So fast foward a year to now, it's been wonderful and we've even talked seriously about the future, my family pretty much thinks we're going to end up getting married this year lol, but this past month he's been very stressed and just not himself, he'd tell me it was because of a change in work along with a few other issues. But this past week was something else, he's been very stressed and impatient and frustrated. We went from talking all the time to short frustrated conversations.
He kept saying things and hinting things, even told me he didn't want to come and stay in a few weeks like he was supposed to, along with other stuff that just left me scratching my head wondering where my boyfriend was and what he did to him. We kept arguing over everything and tonight I asked him to just tell me what's up because wondering what's going on all the time isn't fun, plus it's always nice to know if he was actually coming or not to plan it out, being that it's so close to the date. Long story short, after a couple hours of not really giving me much, he told me he wanted a break, of two weeks at that. To which I was like, what is that supposed to mean? To me it just felt like a break up, without really going all out and breaking up.
I get wanting time or space, but I'm also not about waiting around for a couple weeks wondering what's up or what someone else decides. I'm just not feeling the whole situation, it feels so half assed to me.
Okay, that's kinda long, but I just wanted to vent and maybe get some advice... this whole situation sucks.