BEA2LS
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Because i sure did.. me and my boyfriend have been together for like five years. we are super broke and behind on bills, etc. lots of outside problems going on (he's in a custody battle for his kid, which is partly why we are so broke). so we agreed to do nothing for V Day. no presents, anything. which was fine.
I was hanging out with him than went to my mom's house to help her with stuff. a mutual (female) friend was coming over, which was fine.. i had to go to my mom's house anyway. but i fell asleep there.
at like 10 pm i woke up like shit i missed valentine's day. i called him and he said he just got to the bar and for me to come because the other girl was buying. she was super lonely on valentine's day and wanted friends around. but i like freaked out.. i guess it's the stress over money or whatever. but i felt so left out, like i was only asked as an after thought. he insisted he was gonna call me but i felt like he just was calling me back.
i like screamed at him.. like wtf on valentine's day??? idk. i shoulda handled it better and am feeling super guilty. but i found out our friend was talking shit.. she was pretty drunk and acting crazy but still.. she was like telling him he does not deserve to be treated this way, why do i have to know where he is at all times when he did not know for sure i was at my mom's blah blah. and is she right? i normally would not have cared and even though we said valentine's day is no big deal it just like hurt me. like i cried.. i do not think he ever got me anything for valentine's day ever.. it's not his thing and i should know this but whatever/
am i over reacting? i feel so guilty for screaming at him.. he does not get out much and i hope this does not affect the future. neither of us have too many friends at this point.. all free time goes into him trying to get his kid. but i know he needs support and friends at a time like this and i feel like i ruined everything.
I was hanging out with him than went to my mom's house to help her with stuff. a mutual (female) friend was coming over, which was fine.. i had to go to my mom's house anyway. but i fell asleep there.
at like 10 pm i woke up like shit i missed valentine's day. i called him and he said he just got to the bar and for me to come because the other girl was buying. she was super lonely on valentine's day and wanted friends around. but i like freaked out.. i guess it's the stress over money or whatever. but i felt so left out, like i was only asked as an after thought. he insisted he was gonna call me but i felt like he just was calling me back.
i like screamed at him.. like wtf on valentine's day??? idk. i shoulda handled it better and am feeling super guilty. but i found out our friend was talking shit.. she was pretty drunk and acting crazy but still.. she was like telling him he does not deserve to be treated this way, why do i have to know where he is at all times when he did not know for sure i was at my mom's blah blah. and is she right? i normally would not have cared and even though we said valentine's day is no big deal it just like hurt me. like i cried.. i do not think he ever got me anything for valentine's day ever.. it's not his thing and i should know this but whatever/
am i over reacting? i feel so guilty for screaming at him.. he does not get out much and i hope this does not affect the future. neither of us have too many friends at this point.. all free time goes into him trying to get his kid. but i know he needs support and friends at a time like this and i feel like i ruined everything.