mariecinder
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If any of you ladies have read my last post, then you know I've been hooking up with a good friend of mine. The problem is, I am really in love with him. I mean, really. I've known him for a long time and he's the easiest person to talk to.
I know that he is sort of seeing another girl (even though when he first told me about this girl he said he couldn't stand her unless he was drunk). And yes, it really bothers me.
A while ago (last year) I mentioned to him about a possible relationship between us. At the time he has just gotten out of one and wasn't keen on the idea. After I got out of the relationship I was in, we started hooking up again. At first I was alright with the way things were, just being friends and hooking up once and a while.
I remember having a conversation with him once where I was joking around, saying that he was all talk and no action. He said that it was because I was getting too attatched. I laughed and told him that wasn't the case (at the time it wasn't) and that we were 'just friends'.
But now its like my feelings have gotten out of control. All I think about is him, I want to text him all day long, I get extremely depressed if he doesn't text me back, and it really really bothers me when I know that he's spending time with the other girl.
I know that he's not interested in me the way that I want him to be. I know that its never going to happen. But I keep wanting to text him, keeping wanting to talk to him, keep wanting to invite him places. I know I just need to get over him, but I don't know how!!!
Please help.
I know that he is sort of seeing another girl (even though when he first told me about this girl he said he couldn't stand her unless he was drunk). And yes, it really bothers me.
A while ago (last year) I mentioned to him about a possible relationship between us. At the time he has just gotten out of one and wasn't keen on the idea. After I got out of the relationship I was in, we started hooking up again. At first I was alright with the way things were, just being friends and hooking up once and a while.
I remember having a conversation with him once where I was joking around, saying that he was all talk and no action. He said that it was because I was getting too attatched. I laughed and told him that wasn't the case (at the time it wasn't) and that we were 'just friends'.
But now its like my feelings have gotten out of control. All I think about is him, I want to text him all day long, I get extremely depressed if he doesn't text me back, and it really really bothers me when I know that he's spending time with the other girl.
I know that he's not interested in me the way that I want him to be. I know that its never going to happen. But I keep wanting to text him, keeping wanting to talk to him, keep wanting to invite him places. I know I just need to get over him, but I don't know how!!!
Please help.