Have U Ever Thought About Other Women???

[Didididums]

The way that I see it, is that as a woman, I idolise other women, and I can't do that without finding them sexy.. Otherwise what would I base my own sexiness. I know that it is exactly the same for men, My boyfriend calls it having a 'mancrush'. He doesnt actually want to do anything sexual with them, but he can find them attractive or sexy, because that's how he can idolise and base himself on what looks sexy and attractive. I think it's the same for everyone. I mean, I think Dita Von Teese is sexy as heck, I don't want to get it on with her but i can deffinately say that if I was a straight male, there is nothing i'd rather do. She is who I idolise myself around, I want people to look at me and thing the same things that I think. Isntinctively I think that we are all attracted to the same sex one way or another.

 

[Funtabulous]

 

[kabuki_KILLER]

I bend both ways. However, in both main genders, I prefer more feminine features.

I guess that makes me more gay than straight? Eh whatever.

 

[MamaLaura]

Yes, I have. I still do sometimes, when I'm doin' my thang. But I have actually had "sex" with a few different women, and I wasn't into it. I think it's just the more "taboo" aspect of it for me, because I do consider myself straight. I wouldn't hook up with a girl these days at all. It just isn't pleasing to me.

 

[Meisje]

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Originally Posted by kabuki_KILLER I bend both ways. However, in both main genders, I prefer more feminine features. I guess that makes me more gay than straight? Eh whatever.

I wish I could find the study I read --- they showed both genders photos of men and women and had them rate the attractiveness of the person on a scale. Pretty much everyone found the men and women with androgynous features (facial features that were neither distinctly male or female but that could be attractive on either sex) the most attractive, even if the person was dressed distinctly male or female.

For instance, Brad Pitt in this photo... he is definitely pretty. And I could see his features working on a lady. We'd have to pluck those brows, though.

http://tikulicious.files.wordpress.c...ad_pitt_10.jpg

 

[m4dswine]

I fantasise about women, quite a bit. I've never really been able to fantasise about men in the same way. That said, I've never been with a woman sexually, I did kiss a girl once at a party a few years ago, and it didn't do much for me, but then I don't think of it as a straight gender thing. I fell in love with a girl (I'm starting to wonder how many song titles I can fit into this post!) a few years ago, nothing ever happened because I was married and wouldn't cheat on my husband. I don't think she felt the same way about me though and we are no longer friends.

When my ex husband and I split up and I started thinking about dating I started looking for women. Then I met my bf, and fell in love with him. He knows how I feel about my sexuality, that to me its fluid and I fall in love with people, not genders. He isn't interested in a 3some, and while I think he'd be ok with it on the surface if I wanted to explore with a woman (he once told me if i fancied someone to talk to him about it), I personally would see it as a betrayal of our relationship and I think he's relieved I feel that way.

It does mean though, that we can discuss it openly - we talk about which women we're attracted to together.

If I was ever going to have an affair, it would be with a woman, not a man.

 

[jackytheripper]

This is about where my line is lol, I feel so similarly. I would never be with a girl, but I like looking at them, and have legitimately been attracted to a couple in my life. It's funny to read that from someone else

 

[sylviar94]

I have, its normal...its our nature..for men and women.... you only live once...

 

[joycemendez]

I have! I believe its normal. I always have crushes on girls lol. I've never done anything with one, not sure if I would either. I just like looking lol

 

[MorenitaLokita]

Yes if I see a woman that reminds me of Kerry Washington in "I Think I Love My Wife" or Rihanna I get excited LOL I can't help it. Those are the two women who make me question my sexuality