how do you feel about

[BeccalovesMAC]

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[Mabelle]

I don't think i would throw a hissy fit, but i dont think i would like him getting lap dances. If he were just going to a strip club, thats fine. It's when a girl is dancing on him and touch him, thats what i would hate. If its for his stag, by all means... but apart from that, no thank you!

That being said, I'm lucky. My Boyfriend has no interest in strip clubs at all. He said he kind of got over that in his early twenties, and he finds them more sad than anything. I suppose i don;t have anything to worry about. Even so, the thought of a stripper dancing all up on him makes me angry.

 

[Simply Elegant]

I agree with you, doesn't bug me.

 

[kittykit]

My man has never been to strip club until he was 26. It was after a business dinner and everyone headed to one for more 'business talks'.

I don't mind him going to one but I definitely wouldn't like it if he gets a lap dance. He told me he's not interested in strip clubs and one visit was enough.

 

[xxManBeaterxx]

I usually get one with him so it doesn't bother me. I think he gets more turned on watching me get a lap dance than him receiving one.

I know i've been sexually attracted to some guys and him with girls, but at the end of the day i still want to be with my husband and i know he thinks the same way

 

[BeccalovesMAC]

My lil sister is a real attention whore. I think that's why it bothers her so much because shes not the center of attention if her man decides to go to those places. She considers it cheating.

 

[VeXedPiNk]

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Originally Posted by xxManBeaterxx I usually get one with him so it doesn't bother me. I think he gets more turned on watching me get a lap dance than him receiving one. I know i've been sexually attracted to some guys and him with girls, but at the end of the day i still want to be with my husband and i know he thinks the same way

I couldn't agree more - I actually think I might have had more lap dances in my life than my man has

And it turns me on to see him turned on, so lap dances are good all around for us.

I've pretty much told my man that same thing - he can oogle over all the girls he wants (just like I can!). Because at the end of the day, he's still coming home with me

 

[hello_my_apple]

i dont mind at all, i usually love to watch him get them, its a big turn on lol. and he loves to watch me get them aswell. i dont mind at ALL. i'd love to go to one tonight but it's Good Friday, so i'll be good lol.

 

[LMD84]

i'm not fussed about strip clubs really. however i'm not sure how comfortable i'd be with nick actually getting a lap dance. because i'm not 100% confident in my own body i would imagine that i'd get slightly paranoid about him prefering the strippers body to mine! silly, but there ya go!

 

[BeccalovesMAC]

Thanks LMD84 I think you have a hot body.

 

[n_c]

He can go, no lap dances, hell no.

 

[hello_kitty]

I wouldn't care... but I'd prefer to be there because strip clubs are hella fun!

All my boyfriends have known this, so I was always brought along

So I'd just be sad I was missing out on the fun.

In my mind, a man is more likely to pick someone up at a normal bar than a strip club...

 

[MACPixie]

I wouldn't care if he went, I'd be pissed if he spend money on lap dances.

 

[Shadowy Lady]

lap dances would bother me. I don't think it's coz I'm an "attention whore" though. I just don't like the idea. I don't think my hubby would like some random guy touching my boob, the same way I don't like a random woman's boob touching his face, lol!

Everybody has their own limits/barriers as a couple. There are no rights or wrong answers (or cool vs un-cool answers).

 

[marusia]

I would have a problem with him paying for ass and titties..it would make more sense for him to watch porn with me so we can not only save money, but mutually benefit from it!

 

[hello_my_apple]

word! they are hella fun! the girls always think it's cool that the girlfriend or wife came along. i think people take strippers to serious it's a job and at the end of the day she doesnt want my man and my man def doesnt want her.


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Originally Posted by hello_kitty I wouldn't care... but I'd prefer to be there because strip clubs are hella fun! All my boyfriends have known this, so I was always brought along So I'd just be sad I was missing out on the fun. In my mind, a man is more likely to pick someone up at a normal bar than a strip club...

 

[smellyocheese]

I won't mind. In fact, I'd like to have a male stripper do lap dances for me.

 

[bellaboomboom]

I don't like it...often times it leads to trouble. I know from experience with an ex.

 

[LMD84]

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Originally Posted by BeccalovesMAC Thanks LMD84 I think you have a hot body.

awww! thanks sweetie! but you haven't seen me naked!

 

[BeccalovesMAC]

I guess another good reason why it doesnt bother me is because I have like 5 friends of mine that are dancers. I have been to their work and i have observed the interactions between the dancers and the customers. The girls that are dancing for your man, dont want your man. They want your mans money. That's why I am really cool with him going. I'm not clueless when it comes to my man. He likes to look at other good looking women. I have insecurities with my body and face but it doesn't bother me that my man is a perv. lol

I completey agree with Hello_Kitty. I would rather my man go do a strip club then a regular club. At a regular club there might some drunk bitch trying to flirt and come on to my man. I trust my BF not to cheat but it would make me feel real uncomfortable knowing that there may be a drunk bitch at the bar that wants to take my man home. At the strip club they just want to get paid.