How much flirting is okay?
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M.A.C. head.
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It's up for interpretation, everyone perceives things differently. Anything that you're not comfortable with either physically, or if a comment makes you feel guilty or squeamish = not okay.
Simply Elegant
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Anything you couldn't tell your boyfriend about or wouldn't want him doing wouldn't be right I'd imagine. That's just up to the both of you to decide where it needs to stop.
caffn8me
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I have a huge problem with flirting. I am apparently an incorrigible flirt but I don't even know I'm doing it. Nor can I tell if people are flirting with me. I've been told by others that I flirt with guys, girls and even labradors!
But what for? I'm asexual, single and am not looking for a partner (OK, I might get a labrador one day). I am, however, quite a friendly person and think that can be mistaken for flirting by some.
Sometimes I think it can be very difficult to read signals correctly.
But what for? I'm asexual, single and am not looking for a partner (OK, I might get a labrador one day). I am, however, quite a friendly person and think that can be mistaken for flirting by some.
Sometimes I think it can be very difficult to read signals correctly.
OfficerJenny
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That's a lot like me. I flirt with literally everyone.
It especially makes Waiters uncomfortable :c
Originally Posted by caffn8me
I have a huge problem with flirting. I am apparently an incorrigible flirt but I don't even know I'm doing it. Nor can I tell if people are flirting with me. I've been told by others that I flirt with guys, girls and even labradors! But what for? I'm asexual, single and am not looking for a partner (OK, I might get a labrador one day). I am, however, quite a friendly person and think that can be mistaken for flirting by some. Sometimes I think it can be very difficult to read signals correctly. |
That's a lot like me. I flirt with literally everyone.
It especially makes Waiters uncomfortable :c
Tudor Rose
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I agree with Simply Elegant. Anything you wouldn't want to tell your boyfriend about is too much.
it's hard to draw the line really! i'm a massive flirt with some guys i work with. but when i go home my hubby will know what kind of conversations i've had with them - flirting and all! my hubbys knows i flirt and finds it amusing!
i think as others have said - if i was flirting with a guy at work and hid that i was doing it from hubby there would be issues as that would mean it had deeper meaning perhaps.
also most of my flirting is verbal and my own body language - i never touch the guys at work because to me that's a step too far.
i think as others have said - if i was flirting with a guy at work and hid that i was doing it from hubby there would be issues as that would mean it had deeper meaning perhaps.
also most of my flirting is verbal and my own body language - i never touch the guys at work because to me that's a step too far.
caffn8me
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I've just had an idea
Next time I'm in San Jose (I get there occasionally) we'll go to a restaurant together and have a flirtathon
| Originally Posted by OfficerJenny
That's a lot like me. I flirt with literally everyone. It especially makes Waiters uncomfortable :c |
I've just had an idea
Next time I'm in San Jose (I get there occasionally) we'll go to a restaurant together and have a flirtathon
