KAIA
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....You would understand how am I feeling right now.
My 'father' left my mom and me when I was 1 year. He cheated on my mom, so I have a sister who's 6 months younger than me with 'woman #2'. Then he married this OTHER woman (woman #3) and he had like 3 kids with her... but that's not all, he cheated on 'woman #3' with 'woman #2' and had twins.. How confusing, and irresponsible is that huh?
So if you do the math, he has like 7 kids (including me)
Actual ages: 24 (me) , 23, 21, twins of 20, 17 and... 5 years old!!!
He lived 5 blocks from my house, with his new wife and kids, and guess what? he NEVER went to see me, actually, the first time I met him was very shocking, I was walking with my mom, when suddenly, she was like,... 'kaia, that's your dad' I was 7 years old, after that, he went to visit me when I was 12, he gave me a pair of shoes, one short and a t-shirt, he took me to his home, to meet my 'oh-so-called siblings' , and as soon as i got into his house, he left saying ' i'll come back in a sec. I'll go to the store'....
.... He never came back until 2003, when I was 18 years old, in a hospital bed because i got extremly sick, I almost passed out, and my aunt called him.
And, oh, I forgot to mention, that he never gave me not even a penny, my mother tried to take him to court, but he's a policeman in my country, in my VERY CORRUPT country so she couldn't do much. He did, however, sent money to the other kids, at least he would go and visit them.
I am a very resentful towards him, I pretty much hate him. So I had the chance to confront him....
these are his lame excuses:
- Oh well, i never went to see you, because your mom married again, and I didn't wanted her to have problems with her new husband (my stepfather who's another asshole).
my answer: yeah right! my mom got over you, and you were MY dad, you had to go to SEE ME not her, why would that be a problem??
.. and this one is just.. ridiculous.
- Well, I didn't send you money because you mother's family has money and could help you economically....and the other kids , were pretty poor...
AWWWWWWW POOR OF THEM. HOW F*CKING UNFAIR IS THAT???
And this was his last statement...
'' AW, YOU HAVE 6 SIBLINGS, AND YOU ARE THE OLDEST, YOU HAVE A LOT OF RESPONSABILITY ''
WTF???? SO, apparently, I have to take care of his kids??? excuse me???? he's 55 years old, it's not my fault that him and his wife keep having kids!!!! I'm 24, and I'm NOT planning on having any kids, because that would be very irresponsible from me.
I really wanna send him to hell. he's the biggest jerk I've ever met in my life.
Sorry guys, but i'm really bitter, because I can't understand how carefree he is. he even has the nerve to say that I am 'AN UNGRATEFUL DAUGHTER' because I don't give him a call....
Have you ever gone through a situation like mine?
like you ever felt it would be better if you never met your biological father?
My 'father' left my mom and me when I was 1 year. He cheated on my mom, so I have a sister who's 6 months younger than me with 'woman #2'. Then he married this OTHER woman (woman #3) and he had like 3 kids with her... but that's not all, he cheated on 'woman #3' with 'woman #2' and had twins.. How confusing, and irresponsible is that huh?
So if you do the math, he has like 7 kids (including me)
Actual ages: 24 (me) , 23, 21, twins of 20, 17 and... 5 years old!!!
He lived 5 blocks from my house, with his new wife and kids, and guess what? he NEVER went to see me, actually, the first time I met him was very shocking, I was walking with my mom, when suddenly, she was like,... 'kaia, that's your dad' I was 7 years old, after that, he went to visit me when I was 12, he gave me a pair of shoes, one short and a t-shirt, he took me to his home, to meet my 'oh-so-called siblings' , and as soon as i got into his house, he left saying ' i'll come back in a sec. I'll go to the store'....
.... He never came back until 2003, when I was 18 years old, in a hospital bed because i got extremly sick, I almost passed out, and my aunt called him.
And, oh, I forgot to mention, that he never gave me not even a penny, my mother tried to take him to court, but he's a policeman in my country, in my VERY CORRUPT country so she couldn't do much. He did, however, sent money to the other kids, at least he would go and visit them.
I am a very resentful towards him, I pretty much hate him. So I had the chance to confront him....
these are his lame excuses:
- Oh well, i never went to see you, because your mom married again, and I didn't wanted her to have problems with her new husband (my stepfather who's another asshole).
my answer: yeah right! my mom got over you, and you were MY dad, you had to go to SEE ME not her, why would that be a problem??
.. and this one is just.. ridiculous.
- Well, I didn't send you money because you mother's family has money and could help you economically....and the other kids , were pretty poor...
AWWWWWWW POOR OF THEM. HOW F*CKING UNFAIR IS THAT???
And this was his last statement...
'' AW, YOU HAVE 6 SIBLINGS, AND YOU ARE THE OLDEST, YOU HAVE A LOT OF RESPONSABILITY ''
WTF???? SO, apparently, I have to take care of his kids??? excuse me???? he's 55 years old, it's not my fault that him and his wife keep having kids!!!! I'm 24, and I'm NOT planning on having any kids, because that would be very irresponsible from me.
I really wanna send him to hell. he's the biggest jerk I've ever met in my life.
Sorry guys, but i'm really bitter, because I can't understand how carefree he is. he even has the nerve to say that I am 'AN UNGRATEFUL DAUGHTER' because I don't give him a call....
Have you ever gone through a situation like mine?
like you ever felt it would be better if you never met your biological father?