Dani
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Let me start off by saying I'm 18 and the man in this story is 40 and I shall call him Q from here on (I dunno why I picked Q...anyway...)
So I've been friendly with my coworker q for about a year now, and he was talking about his daughter wanting cowboy boots that were very expensive. I have another job at a shoe store where we recently got a large shipment of cowboy boots and I offered him a discount. There were several phone calls back and forth about size, style, etc. He gave me a number to call him at but whenever he was the one calling me his number came up as restricted. He got the boots with a discount and took them to another state where his wife and daughter are. On Thursday I missed a call from a restricted number, so I sent a text asking if he had called and if it wasn't him sorry to be a bother, figuring that there was a problem with the shoes and he wanted his money back. Yesterday night he called me and said that my text caused a huge problem between him and his wife and theyre divorcing.
....what? WHAT?! I'm feeling so many things. I know I didn't do anything wrong, but I still feel like it's my fault. Especially because he pretty much blamed me on the phone...which I'm kind of hurt about. He knows I hate for anyone to be unhappy and it feels like he just wanted to hurt me the way he talked to me. Did I do something wrong? Maybe because I'm so much younger I did something I don't understand...but I didn't mean any harm, I truly didn't. Bear in mind I have NO feelings for him, if anything he's kind of uncle-ish to me. Please give me your thoughts and advice. I wish there was some way to help but I think right now the best way to help is to stay away. But since you ladies are mostly older than I am I'd really love to hear what you think of the situation.
So I've been friendly with my coworker q for about a year now, and he was talking about his daughter wanting cowboy boots that were very expensive. I have another job at a shoe store where we recently got a large shipment of cowboy boots and I offered him a discount. There were several phone calls back and forth about size, style, etc. He gave me a number to call him at but whenever he was the one calling me his number came up as restricted. He got the boots with a discount and took them to another state where his wife and daughter are. On Thursday I missed a call from a restricted number, so I sent a text asking if he had called and if it wasn't him sorry to be a bother, figuring that there was a problem with the shoes and he wanted his money back. Yesterday night he called me and said that my text caused a huge problem between him and his wife and theyre divorcing.
....what? WHAT?! I'm feeling so many things. I know I didn't do anything wrong, but I still feel like it's my fault. Especially because he pretty much blamed me on the phone...which I'm kind of hurt about. He knows I hate for anyone to be unhappy and it feels like he just wanted to hurt me the way he talked to me. Did I do something wrong? Maybe because I'm so much younger I did something I don't understand...but I didn't mean any harm, I truly didn't. Bear in mind I have NO feelings for him, if anything he's kind of uncle-ish to me. Please give me your thoughts and advice. I wish there was some way to help but I think right now the best way to help is to stay away. But since you ladies are mostly older than I am I'd really love to hear what you think of the situation.