BinkysBaby
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My partner and I of 2 1/2 years just broke up. I am not interested in another relationship because our's was intense and I want to be able to completely heal before moving on. Plus, I'm in school full time and I work full time so I would really need someone who understands my life.
Here's the issue:
When I first started my job (about a year and a half ago) there was a chick (Laurie) who worked with the training department. I immediately knew she was a lesbian and through us talking, she quickly found out that I'm a lesbian as well. She was in a relationship and so was I. There was always chemistry (which I felt very guilty about) but we never, ever, ever acted on it.
Not only was there physical chemistry, I felt like we were so, so, so much alike in so many ways that it scared me. I felt some "soul-matish qualities" and it freaked me the hell out because I had a girlfriend and so did she. Neither one of us had ANY intentions of leaving.
Now she just broke up with her girlfriend and she hinted around today that she would like to ask me out. I was freaking floored. She's my perfect physical type, she stimulates me intellectually, we have the same family values....it's crazy.
Should I hang out with her? We both literally broke up (about 2 weeks) and it just feels so soon. I don't want to start something before I'm ready but I've been secretly wanting her almost since I met her.
What's a girl to do?
Here's the issue:
When I first started my job (about a year and a half ago) there was a chick (Laurie) who worked with the training department. I immediately knew she was a lesbian and through us talking, she quickly found out that I'm a lesbian as well. She was in a relationship and so was I. There was always chemistry (which I felt very guilty about) but we never, ever, ever acted on it.
Not only was there physical chemistry, I felt like we were so, so, so much alike in so many ways that it scared me. I felt some "soul-matish qualities" and it freaked me the hell out because I had a girlfriend and so did she. Neither one of us had ANY intentions of leaving.
Now she just broke up with her girlfriend and she hinted around today that she would like to ask me out. I was freaking floored. She's my perfect physical type, she stimulates me intellectually, we have the same family values....it's crazy.
Should I hang out with her? We both literally broke up (about 2 weeks) and it just feels so soon. I don't want to start something before I'm ready but I've been secretly wanting her almost since I met her.
What's a girl to do?