malaviKat
Well-known member
TISH is totally on point.
And I know it's just a typical turn of phrase but nobody here hates you (nor will they hate you for anything you do.) It sounds, however, as though you hate yourself.
Sleeping with men isn't going to validate your existence. It isn't going to make you (more) beautiful, smart, sexy etc. You might delude yourself into thinking that you're all of those things because of the attention that you're getting from the men who want you for a temporary fling, but when you sit back and analyze the situation, you'll see that their attention is wholly negative. You need to realize that you are beautiful, smart, sexy etc. and that you don't need a man on your arm (or in your bed) to affirm this fact.
Stop putting yourself in situations that only make you feel worse about yourself and start cultivating a more positive body and self image. You have too much going for you to throw your life away on meaningless, potentially dangerous, sex. All this is serving to do is screw with your head.
And I know it's just a typical turn of phrase but nobody here hates you (nor will they hate you for anything you do.) It sounds, however, as though you hate yourself.
Sleeping with men isn't going to validate your existence. It isn't going to make you (more) beautiful, smart, sexy etc. You might delude yourself into thinking that you're all of those things because of the attention that you're getting from the men who want you for a temporary fling, but when you sit back and analyze the situation, you'll see that their attention is wholly negative. You need to realize that you are beautiful, smart, sexy etc. and that you don't need a man on your arm (or in your bed) to affirm this fact.
Stop putting yourself in situations that only make you feel worse about yourself and start cultivating a more positive body and self image. You have too much going for you to throw your life away on meaningless, potentially dangerous, sex. All this is serving to do is screw with your head.
