pretty_melody
Well-known member
Why is it that when your in a relationship you always wind up gaining a ton of weight? Ive been with my boyfriend and living with him for three years. I've gained like 40 pounds he's also gained weight as well. For some reason I just dont want to be intimate with him anymore. I hate my body and I just have these images of us being married, fat and miserable. I know this sounds so shallow and I love him very much. I just feel like it's taking a huge toll on our relationship. I mean how can I love him if I cant even stand myself. I was just wondering what you ladies do to stay confident in a relationship?