I hate to make not having it worse, but it is an amazing colour. I B2M'd it and haven't regretted it at all, even tho I mainly wore neutrals at the time. One suggestion is Tres Cher l/g, which came out w/ the Sundressing collection. It's not as deep, you don't get the opaque look and it's glossier, but it's pretty much a deadringer for Lovemate. I'll post a few pictures later so you can see the difference/similarity.
*edit* You can access links to the pictures
here. Sorry I don't have the actual pictures posted here, I haven't resized them yet.