MisStarrlight
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I have a music video shoot in the city tomorrow morning (at 4:30am) and my boyfriend is not too thrilled about it.
We do have plans for the day, so I think most of his concerns are centered around that...but since the shoot is so early, I should be done well in time to go to dinner & a movie.
I guess what really concerns me is that every time I have a shoot he gets all paranoid. I understand that he's concerned that I will end up having a creep photographer, but it's not like I'm the only person on set...and it's not like I'm small & weak & can't take care of myself.
It's like, I get the third degree every time I tell him that I have to work. First is "how much are you getting paid?" and then "who is it?" "do you know him/her?" "how did you meet" and then I have to give him a minute by minute update-calling him when I get there, when I start working, when I leave, etc, etc.
It's just frustrating and I feel like it's another example of how he doesn't trust me...like, he's even started to question my weddings (which I in return tell him to eff-off because they pay a ton), but it is much harder to justify a little/no paying gig in the city w/ people I have never met before.
We do have plans for the day, so I think most of his concerns are centered around that...but since the shoot is so early, I should be done well in time to go to dinner & a movie.
I guess what really concerns me is that every time I have a shoot he gets all paranoid. I understand that he's concerned that I will end up having a creep photographer, but it's not like I'm the only person on set...and it's not like I'm small & weak & can't take care of myself.
It's like, I get the third degree every time I tell him that I have to work. First is "how much are you getting paid?" and then "who is it?" "do you know him/her?" "how did you meet" and then I have to give him a minute by minute update-calling him when I get there, when I start working, when I leave, etc, etc.
It's just frustrating and I feel like it's another example of how he doesn't trust me...like, he's even started to question my weddings (which I in return tell him to eff-off because they pay a ton), but it is much harder to justify a little/no paying gig in the city w/ people I have never met before.