Amber*Christine
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So you all probably know about my situation w/ my ex, as I posted about it before in "My Boyfriend of 4 years left me for another woman". Well despite my shitty ass situation I've been a complete lady about it, were most chicks would rightly bust the windows in his car and then take that same bat to that skanky whore's head...(though believe I've thought about it
), I haven't. Well the crazy thing is, this girlfriend of his will not let me be. Well I told you how she is CRAZY POSSESSIVE, well I work for his mother and though him and his g/f have been repeatedly told she can't be brought around me outta respect for me which for god sake he should have after all he's done to me, they still come around together, I mean I can't say a fuckin word to him w/o that crazy whore being literally in my face. Imagine having to see your one time boyfriend of 4 years w/ the girl he left you for constantly when you're trying to move on...how I've maintained my cool I just don't know. Well last nite things blew up. So he came by in the morning...w/ the whore, and we had a little chat about his college, well I could see psycho shooting me dagger eyes the whole time, bitch even wiggled between us during the convo...very insecure. Well as he left I remind him to drop off the money he owed me later. (His mother told me she stopped by his new apt. to give him something afterwards and that girl had locked herself in the bathroom and was screaming and flipping out cause of our innocent lil convo..lame? 
) Soo, later rolls around and he brings that girl w/ him and I asked him for my money and he told me he wasn't able to cash his check so I walk him to the door and say simply "call me when you have my money" and psycho bitch went ape shit she screamed "stay the fuck away from my boyfriend!" and pushed me then dragged her nasty hooker nails down my arms gouging my finger and leaving little blood spots on my arms! I pushed her off me then he jumped between us and pulled her away to the car. I couldn't fuckin believe it. I was shaking soo bad I could even concentrate at work so I got to go home early. When I went home I just curled up in a ball and cried, I can't believe this is my fuckin life. He didn't even call to see if I was ok. His parents and my family believe I need to get a restraining order. His parents said they seen this coming as she is insanely jealous of me, she's always trying to intimidate me, she writes me nasty notes, etc. She acts like the woman scorned! I just don't know what to do, I can barely eat or sleep I'm soo upset over everything these past few monthes, it's not even so much the fact me and him are over it's that she makes him flaunt their relationship in front of me, she harasses me, etc. I wish I could get a new job, but you know how shitty the economy has been. I'm nervous cause that girl is very unstable and ya know this crazy drug addict, I don't know what she may do next, she even knows where I live. Last nite and this morning I was nervous to leave the building. This is all so fucking insane I can't deal, ppl shouldn't have to live their lives this way ya know. I can't believe after 4 years of me giving him everything he throws us away and lets this crazy woman make my life hell. It's like I don't even recognize him anymore. This whole situation makes me sick and though I only see him once in awhile, (I can't keep him from coming to my workplace to see his mother ya know), it's like I'm continueously getting slapped in the face by this. The only peace I have is away from work, I'm miserable the whole time I'm there. He acts like it's no big deal for the two of us girls to be around each other...is he an idiot or what? It's like he has no sensitivity toward this situation he's thrown me in. You all will probably think I'm lame or crazy for saying this and hell I kinda think so too, but I'm kinda scared he'll hate me if I get a restraining order against his g/f...I know I shouldn't give a damn after all he's done, but it would hurt to see somebody who loved me look at me w/ hate in their eyes.
oooh, I jus don't know what to do. <pout> I feel like I'm in hell.
) Soo, later rolls around and he brings that girl w/ him and I asked him for my money and he told me he wasn't able to cash his check so I walk him to the door and say simply "call me when you have my money" and psycho bitch went ape shit she screamed "stay the fuck away from my boyfriend!" and pushed me then dragged her nasty hooker nails down my arms gouging my finger and leaving little blood spots on my arms! I pushed her off me then he jumped between us and pulled her away to the car. I couldn't fuckin believe it. I was shaking soo bad I could even concentrate at work so I got to go home early. When I went home I just curled up in a ball and cried, I can't believe this is my fuckin life. He didn't even call to see if I was ok. His parents and my family believe I need to get a restraining order. His parents said they seen this coming as she is insanely jealous of me, she's always trying to intimidate me, she writes me nasty notes, etc. She acts like the woman scorned! I just don't know what to do, I can barely eat or sleep I'm soo upset over everything these past few monthes, it's not even so much the fact me and him are over it's that she makes him flaunt their relationship in front of me, she harasses me, etc. I wish I could get a new job, but you know how shitty the economy has been. I'm nervous cause that girl is very unstable and ya know this crazy drug addict, I don't know what she may do next, she even knows where I live. Last nite and this morning I was nervous to leave the building. This is all so fucking insane I can't deal, ppl shouldn't have to live their lives this way ya know. I can't believe after 4 years of me giving him everything he throws us away and lets this crazy woman make my life hell. It's like I don't even recognize him anymore. This whole situation makes me sick and though I only see him once in awhile, (I can't keep him from coming to my workplace to see his mother ya know), it's like I'm continueously getting slapped in the face by this. The only peace I have is away from work, I'm miserable the whole time I'm there. He acts like it's no big deal for the two of us girls to be around each other...is he an idiot or what? It's like he has no sensitivity toward this situation he's thrown me in. You all will probably think I'm lame or crazy for saying this and hell I kinda think so too, but I'm kinda scared he'll hate me if I get a restraining order against his g/f...I know I shouldn't give a damn after all he's done, but it would hurt to see somebody who loved me look at me w/ hate in their eyes.
