Hey I´m about the same skintone as you, and have dark eyes and hair.
I love (neutrals):
Shroom (nice soft highlight color)
Naked Lunch (good all over lid)
Woodwinked (so gorgeous!)
Satin Taupe
Sable
Soft Brown (good for crease on a very soft look)
Embark (good for crease and brows)
Carbon (of course...basic matte black)
More color (I like greens and purples on my brown eyes):
Golden Olive Pigment (ok not an eye shadow...)
Deep Blue Green Pigment (with a dark base it shows more green)
Femme Noir (matte dark green, good for crease)
Trax (purple, some love it some hate it...)
Burnt Burgundy Pigment (soooo gorgeous!!!)
Beauty Marked (good for crease or as a liner)
Ok long post and a lot of stuff