Beachgrl07
Well-known member
What do you do when you just don't love your husband anymore?
My husband and I got married very young and we've been together for four years. Unfortunately, I feel like everyday I'm falling out of love with him. He used to be the person I wanted to be with but now he's selfish and controlling and he yells A LOT! He has also cheated on me twice (he also accused me of cheating even though I did no such thing).
I know he's been really depressed lately but he tells me that there's nothing I can do. If I am depressed though and need his help, I am instantly shunned.
I don't want to get a divorce and be like my parents (or even his parents)...I also don't want to get a divorce for his sake. He'll lose a lot of money if I leave and I worry about what he'll do to himself (he wouldn't kill himself but I think he would get lost in his anger and let his career slide). I've left for months at a time (just to visit family during his military training) and he gets along fine by himself but I wonder how he'll do without me as his wife. I'm only 23 though and don't want to be where I am today.
Any suggestions?
My husband and I got married very young and we've been together for four years. Unfortunately, I feel like everyday I'm falling out of love with him. He used to be the person I wanted to be with but now he's selfish and controlling and he yells A LOT! He has also cheated on me twice (he also accused me of cheating even though I did no such thing).
I know he's been really depressed lately but he tells me that there's nothing I can do. If I am depressed though and need his help, I am instantly shunned.
I don't want to get a divorce and be like my parents (or even his parents)...I also don't want to get a divorce for his sake. He'll lose a lot of money if I leave and I worry about what he'll do to himself (he wouldn't kill himself but I think he would get lost in his anger and let his career slide). I've left for months at a time (just to visit family during his military training) and he gets along fine by himself but I wonder how he'll do without me as his wife. I'm only 23 though and don't want to be where I am today.
Any suggestions?