Worried About Giving Head

Hay Mich

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I've been with my bf for almost 2 years and I've tried oral sex a few times. It ends pretty quickly because my jaw gets sore and I can't produce enough saliva to keep his penis wet and not irritated. I have no confidence in myself so I never want to do it. He's okay about it, doesn't mind at all but I want to be able to do it for him since he gives me oral a lot. I don't know how to get over my fear! Looks like you guys gave some good advice; I'll have to read it over again.
 

Goat Goat Etc.

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It's been awhile and I've learned something else stimulating! Pay attention to that taint and rectum! Negotiate anyway you can to have your guy be clean! My guy is extremely so and licking him up and down his taint is pure ecstasy for him! Also have him jack himself off and take his balls in your mouth and start twirling your tongue! And pop!
 
 

-Cassandra-

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Best advice I can give you go with what you feel the most comfortable doing. If you start to gag while your sucking then dont take in so much of the penis. It will make it much eaiser on you and you dont have to worry about puking all over him LOL
 

Spikesmom

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A friend of mine told me the other day she covers her teeth with her lips. I've never done this, it seems like it would keep me from doing other things in my mouth. Anyone else do this?
 

-Cassandra-

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A friend of mine told me the other day she covers her teeth with her lips. I've never done this, it seems like it would keep me from doing other things in my mouth. Anyone else do this?

yea I do that its the only way to make sure i dont accidentally scrape the skin with my teeth but downside is that i end up scraping up the inside of my top n bottom lip with my teeth it all depends on if the guy is the type who wants you to suck hard n fast or slow its my previous ex liked it when I would suck hard n really fast so that would make my lips get really swollen =(
 

dxgirly

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The only advice I can give that wasn't already given, is to swallow, don't spit. Apparently some guys think it's rude when you spit. *shrug*
 

-Cassandra-

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The only advice I can give that wasn't already given, is to swallow, don't spit. Apparently some guys think it's rude when you spit. *shrug*

I hate that about guys LOL we women are doing all the work down there so if they taste DISGUSTING a woman should spit if she wants too and not feel sorry if that bursts the guys bubble about having pornstar sex LOL
 

Funtabulous

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^ My boyfriend actually likes when it gets a bit 'messy', and doesn't seem to care too much if I swallow or not. He'd probably like it more if it just got all over the place (like my face) instead. TMI? lol, it's a blowjob thread though!

BTW if you are concerned about his taste have him eat leafy greans, fruit (especially pineapple), avoid alcohol, red meat, asparagus, tobacco, and coffee.

Also, try making sounds when you do it, like sucking and smacking with your lips.

Grip relatively tightly at the base. As things get closer, run your other hand up and down more tightly. Twist.

Sometimes I like to use two hands and just kind of squeeze the shaft and twist em around while I suck the head.

Let him know you appreciate his body. Kneel before him and run your hands over his chest, thighs, etc. Tell him how sexy he is, guys want to hear this too!

Try to take as much of him in as you can. If you can deep throat definitely give that a try. Sadly, I've never been able to accomplish this! It has nothing to do with gag reflex either, it's more that I can't get it past the palate (top of mouth right before throat) without breaking the damn thing in half. Anyone else know how to deal with this?
 

dxgirly

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^actually reading that made me realize that my boyfriend really likes that too. He likes to cream all over my face or down on my chest too. I just he doesn't appreciate if it goes in my mouth, and then I spit it out. Like he doesn't want it to go to waste or something! lmfao
 

User38

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man, I learn more on Specktra than any magazine or website
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ElvenEyes

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and here I thought I was too young to read this kind of info
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omg..I am so glad I am not the only one! lol

I feel a bit embarrassed to say this, but I guess honesty is what this thread is all about and I highly respect that. I have been married for almost 19 years and we have never had oral sex. It was not for either of us...we never even wanted to try it. Cheers to the women on this forum who are open and willing to chat about anything. I really admire that! And apparently here is to the matchmaker in heaven who paired my husband and I up, since we both are so well suited to each other in more aspects than I ever realized!!
 

Goat Goat Etc.

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Quote:Originally Posted by HerGreyness 

man, I learn more on Specktra than any magazine or website
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Lol, never be a cosmo girl, you'll be a freak to a man in the least attractive way.
 

User38

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lol.. thanks, but I don't "read" magazines.. I look at the pics, like a comic book
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besides, all I need to know about men is that they can be woofs.. I am newly widowed and the thought of being with another man who just wants sex is apalling to me... I am an old hag anyway.
 

marajode

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HG, I have this feeling you're a smexay beast.

You're extremely hot, gorgeous, etc.. This I know.

I'm right, aren't I???
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User38

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darlin marajode.. I am and you are right.. but the animal in me is quite tame on the outside and it takes a very very special man to unlock my cage if you know what I mean.. HA.
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User38

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besides.. I don't " worry" about anything sexual... if you do, you will ultimately F yourself...
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marajode

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I knew you were hot!
(it's my vision of you anyway!)

And I do know what you mean.
Not just any ole Sigfried can unlock my cage either. They have to have the right whip.


This has been an enlightening thread for sure.
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darlin marajode.. I am and you are right.. but the animal in me is quite tame on the outside and it takes a very very special man to unlock my cage if you know what I mean.. HA.
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User38

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^ lol..

yea.. I am a sexay wild beastie who howls in the night.
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this thread would have been a hoot, if I were 15
 

-Cassandra-

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omg..I am so glad I am not the only one! lol

I feel a bit embarrassed to say this, but I guess honesty is what this thread is all about and I highly respect that. I have been married for almost 19 years and we have never had oral sex. It was not for either of us...we never even wanted to try it. Cheers to the women on this forum who are open and willing to chat about anything. I really admire that! And apparently here is to the matchmaker in heaven who paired my husband and I up, since we both are so well suited to each other in more aspects than I ever realized!!
Nothing to be embarrassed about =) Both of you found what works for you and that's what matters , I am a firm believer about doing what you feel comfortable with. It doesn't matter if its a man or woman. When it comes to sex no one should feel pressured to do something they don't want to do , it should be equal on both parts and always with respect and love.
 

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