First off... i offer you my best wishes on everything! Do what makes you happy & whats good for your little boy! Me of all people totally know what a relief it is to "come out" to everyone you know. I've been with my girlfriend (soon to be wife in 3 days) for 10 1/2 years and we spent many years without everyone knowing. Once you figure out that you want the world to know, its an amazing feeling!
Everyone on Specktra have been more than sweet with my being gay. I'm glad that you feel comfortable coming out on here. If you ever need to talk or need advise on anything, just PM me
On another note... i love all of your FOTDs & hope you can make time to post when you get the chance
Take care of yourself!!!