Babylard
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I broke up with my boyfriend quite some time ago and we don't have a real friendship. I soon realized that I'm such a loner lol. He was the only person I really hung out with. I have a tendency to cling to 1 or 2 people, not a crowd.
I moved to Winnipeg in Augest and I'm at a new school, U of M. Is there something wrong with me? I seem to be anti-social or something. I haven't made any real friends yet. I say hi to people in my labs and maybe if i sit next to someone I see often, but that's about it. I really want study buddies and people to just hang out with.
I think I'm a nice girl, easy on the eyes. I'm always giggling and smiling if I do talk to someone. What am I doing wrong? Sadly, I don't know how to make friends. I am seriously so passive.... I get intimidated by everyone, but I don't show it. I'm not the kind of person that will be like "hey, wanna hang out?" That just seems sooo weird to me lol.
Could it be that I look unfriendly? I think I tend to avoid eye contact. Could that be a reason why? I look like a typical Asian girl, 5'1... dyed hair... love makeup... I sometimes feel like I push people away. This guy on the bus thought I was staring at him. When I got off, we chatted and I wasl ike "Oh I'm sorry, I wasn't staring at you. I was looking out the window..."
I was with my ex for almost all my high school life. Perhaps that relationship has destroyed me.
I'm sick of not going out on friday nights and having to go to the mall and hang out with myself. It feels weird. I get a lot of looks like "why are you alone?" - sort of looks.
I want to dine out but I feel like such a douche if it's just me.
I have buddies back in Vancouver because I knew them for a long time, but here I don't know anyone. It's not liek I can just walk up to someone and be like "hey, wanan be friends?" LOL
Any advice and comments are welcome!
Thanks,
Anna
I moved to Winnipeg in Augest and I'm at a new school, U of M. Is there something wrong with me? I seem to be anti-social or something. I haven't made any real friends yet. I say hi to people in my labs and maybe if i sit next to someone I see often, but that's about it. I really want study buddies and people to just hang out with.
I think I'm a nice girl, easy on the eyes. I'm always giggling and smiling if I do talk to someone. What am I doing wrong? Sadly, I don't know how to make friends. I am seriously so passive.... I get intimidated by everyone, but I don't show it. I'm not the kind of person that will be like "hey, wanna hang out?" That just seems sooo weird to me lol.
Could it be that I look unfriendly? I think I tend to avoid eye contact. Could that be a reason why? I look like a typical Asian girl, 5'1... dyed hair... love makeup... I sometimes feel like I push people away. This guy on the bus thought I was staring at him. When I got off, we chatted and I wasl ike "Oh I'm sorry, I wasn't staring at you. I was looking out the window..."
I was with my ex for almost all my high school life. Perhaps that relationship has destroyed me.
I'm sick of not going out on friday nights and having to go to the mall and hang out with myself. It feels weird. I get a lot of looks like "why are you alone?" - sort of looks.
I want to dine out but I feel like such a douche if it's just me.
I have buddies back in Vancouver because I knew them for a long time, but here I don't know anyone. It's not liek I can just walk up to someone and be like "hey, wanan be friends?" LOL
Any advice and comments are welcome!
Thanks,
Anna