So today not to long ago I just came back from a meeting with my girls who are in my wedding. Things are not going well at all and it's not all my girls it's just one girl! she has been my friend since freshman year of college do i've known her for quite some time. ever since i've picked who i wanted in my party she's been bitchy. like always complaining about who she doesnt wanna look at on MY wedding day? like who says that?!. she's showed up late to every meeting since december, and she's negative about everything. Now i can see if i was being a bridezilla but i've made a conscience effort to be very kind during this process. i've picked my wedding colors based on what the girls "wanted" their dress colors to be by voting on my two fav colors and she's been saying stuff behind my back about how the colors are ugly!!!!! the dresses that i picked were sorta pricy so my fiance suggested starting early on fitting so by the time july gets here everything will be paid, and i understand people lose and gain weight that's another reason. so she didnt come to the first two fittings. i had to leave work early one day to pick her up from work and to pick up her son from school so i could take her to the bridal shop which is about a 30 min drive my house she didnt say thank you btw. she came there without the 90 dollar deposit saying "oh that was supposed to be handed in today?" so i ended up using my credit card and she wasnt even greatful didnt pay me back yet she complained the whole time. the last meeting i told the girls they would need the other 90 bucks today at this meeting - a month ago. everyone brought it but her. i have 9 girls in my wedding and everyone else is being really helpful but she stresses me! am i being toooo over the top about this? and if not how should i kick her out?