This collection was released here yesterday... the sad point is it came incomplete!!
No Instant Chic, Grab, Memorabilia or Tissueweigh!!
So I ended having:
Coral Crepe p/p,
Grey Gazette e/s,
and both cromagraphic pencils.
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Originally Posted by dreamer246
Thank you ladies!
Yes I know that I'm only 23 now, but in a couple of years' time (hopefully) I'll be flying over to the U.S. to do my PhD and post doctoral research, after which I'm probably flying back to Singapore. By the time I'm done with everything I'm gonna be about 33 years old - way too old and over-qualified for most men's tastes, I should think (people here usually settle down early... Plus early menopause runs in my family, so I have to worry if I want children). And I'll probably be working my ass off in grad school to do much socializing, not to mention I'm going to be too poor to go out much too. Even if I do meet someone over there, it's gonna be hard to maintain the relationship because I have to come back eventually (I know my parents will want me to). Sigh. Well I've decided that if I do meet that special someone in the next couple of years, I will compromise a little and do my PhD locally, if not then I'm flying off and devoting my whole (single) life to psychology... That's why I said time is running out for me!
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Originally Posted by dreamer246
Off topic a little, thanks for the advice everyone! I will try not to worry so much about the future. But it's hard 'cause my mum wants me to settle down over the next few years. She also disproves of my decision to undertake the PhD degree, because she thinks it is a waste of time (and money) that will hamper my chances of starting a family. She is always sitting me down and asking me to rethink my decision, which is giving me undue stress. Not that she has ever shown support for anything I do. It almost feels like she is living my life for me. Arrgh!
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Funny... Ever since I remember (age 5) I dreamed about falling in love and being married... Sadly I was born with unique intelligence and to scientific parents. I know they love me and only wish and guard for my best, but some how pushed me into a career that I was really good at but never cared for, physics. I hardly tried to fit their dreams and wishes, I went to grad school. Along the path I abandoned most my dreams. I almost got my PhD, I was as miserable as you'd never imagine...I got severely depressed, agoraphobic, anxious, obsessive, barely sleep and starved... I finally realized it was their dream and not mine, this is my life and not their's. It's mine even to ruin. I realized it doesn't matter how smart you are but how happy and selffulfilled you feel. My smarts are not a waste, they're mine and they're mine to decide what to use it for.
The greatest thing of all that?? During my PhD I met a handsome, smart, loving, funny postdoctoral researcher whom I married!!
Life it's what happens when you stop worrying and live!!!