Please do not ever take nude photos for your

[vina]

boyfriend/girlfriend. We all know about celebs doing it (vanessa hudgens) and it surfacing on the net. But it could happen to you! I came across this website where if you have nude photos of your ex you can upload it for free for the world to see. Now I'm sure there is a few decent souls out there that wouldn't expose there ex but this site has over 9000 people who weren't so lucky. I'm not going to post a direct link to the site(has pornographic images/ads) but for those who are super curious: revengeworld dot com

Haven't really been this pissed off at an internet site since rotten. I wonder if there is a way to shut it down. What are your thoughts about sites like these?

 

[banjobama]

I let my ex take nekkid pics of me. It is SO STUPID! he deleted them from his computer in front of me but who knows if he has a CD of them somewhere. After we broke up it was just something for him to use against me. Finally I had to just tell myself, I don't think they looked bad and I wasn't doing anything incriminating (drugs, etc) so I guess oh well if someone DOES see them!

 

[Ms. Z]

That is Very important message! I have always warned people about things like that. You may think that it's innocent or that your mate loves you so much that they wouldn't share them with anybody, but I say trust no one!

Keep in mind: Unless you are pursuing a job in porn, nude modeling or as a stripper, this can ruin your reputation and/or your career.

 

[SparklingWaves]

I would never allow anyone to take a naked picture of myself. Those pictures can circulate. If a relationship goes wrong, they have a your naked body to parade around for jokes. No way.

Also, for those ladies or men that have had elective surgeries. If you are ever hurt on a job or been hurt in an accident, they will subpoena ALL of your medical records. They do have a right if you are involved in a lawsuit. Others will be looking at close ups of nipples, hairy crotch, etc. You will not know who or what is done with these things. You can't sue them if that gets on net either. They will make you sign waivers. People don't know that. All this HIPPA stuff does not apply to lawsuits.

 

[CantAffordMAC]

i've taken pictures like this of myself for my boyfriend like on my phone, but it was my phone and I deleted them. me and my boyfriend have taken a few of some things we've done (i wasnt naked though) but he didnt even really want to do it, and he tells me we should throw them out.

I was talking to a guy before I met my boyfriend, and I was giving him oral. He reached and grabbed something and I didn't know what it was, so I asked him. He never answered me, so I looked up and he had his phone in his hands. So i thought he was texting somebody or someone had texted him, but I was really curious so I asked again. He was taking a video of me. I didn't really care at the time, and I actually let him take another video of me doing that a few weeks later. A lot of things have happened since then, I have no contact with him now. I absolutely hate him and I can only hope that the videos don't get out. My boyfriend knows about it though.

Its definetly not a good idea to do these things. You can only warn people though.

 

[NicksWifey]

It's shocking to know there are websites out there that exist.
Anyone that uploads naked pics on a website, just for revenge to get back at an ex, seriously, grow a set of balls.

 

[xsnowwhite]

yeah that would suck reallyyy bad.

i saw the vanessa anne hugens one on best week ever and she looks REALLY young. Like 15 or something.

 

[ette]

I totally agree!! This is something that young girls need to remember...I've had a couple friends who've had the same thing happen to them as Vanessa and they've had to switch schools, etc.

 

[lipstickandhate]

I just LOL'd thinking of what would happen to my significant other if he ever posted personal pictures I'd given him online.

 

[Beauty Mark]

Even if your ex is an honorable person, you never know who will find those photos. His asshole best friend, his siblings looking for a laugh, the maid, etc.

Only allow photos of yourself out there that you want to be out there or would be cool with it. The only thing remotely nude of me out there are photos a friend took for her portfolio for an art project (she's a photographer), and I made sure that the photos were something I'd be proud to stand by if they ever surfaced beyond her class.

 

[msmack]

I definalty have a few vids and pics of myself, and my bf, but i am not worried about them 'surfacing' somewhere. Know why? They have all been taken with MY camera and uploaded on MY laptop (which is password protected), even he doesn't know the password. I told him I would be more than happy to make some vids/pics (which he loves)...BUT I MUST HAVE COMPLETE CONTROL. We can enjoy them together. lol I guess I could blackmail HIM with them later...totally jk.

 

[aziajs]

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Originally Posted by Beauty Mark Even if your ex is an honorable person, you never know who will find those photos. His asshole best friend, his siblings looking for a laugh, the maid, etc. Only allow photos of yourself out there that you want to be out there or would be cool with it. The only thing remotely nude of me out there are photos a friend took for her portfolio for an art project (she's a photographer), and I made sure that the photos were something I'd be proud to stand by if they ever surfaced beyond her class.

I can not agree with you more!!!!

1. Even if you are in love and your signifigant other is a decent person you NEVER know what the future holds. When people fight or break up they do and say alot of cruel and unfortunate things because they are hurt or angry among other things. Even if they regret it later, what's done is done. You can never underestimate that fact. How you feel about someone now or how they feel about you is not definite and absolute.

2. You never know who may see these photos. A friend of theirs, a parent, a sibling, a maid, a computer tech, the new person your ex is seeing, the list goes on and on.

3. If you are comfortable with anyone seeing them, then fine. But, if you wouldn't want your parents or siblings or family, friends, employers seeing them I would think twice. If you can't stand behind what you've done and be proud of it, don't do it.

 

[user79]

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Originally Posted by msmack I definalty have a few vids and pics of myself, and my bf, but i am not worried about them 'surfacing' somewhere. Know why? They have all been taken with MY camera and uploaded on MY laptop (which is password protected), even he doesn't know the password. I told him I would be more than happy to make some vids/pics (which he loves)...BUT I MUST HAVE COMPLETE CONTROL. We can enjoy them together. lol I guess I could blackmail HIM with them later...totally jk.

Same. I have some naughty pics that I let my bf take of me (mostly booty shots in racy undies) but they're on my laptop and he's pretty computer illiterate. So I have full control.

 

[ratmist]

My husband and I occasionally play around with taking pictures of random bits of ourselves - a hand, or a toe, or our bellies. Never anything 'racy' or anything with a face. It's mostly just to make us laugh in the moment, not really to look at later.


On the other hand, the only naked image of me is one that my then-boyfriend drew of me. I was naked, asleep on my futon on the floor, and he lit a large candle and sketched me. It was the loveliest image anyone had ever done of me, and I'm still chasing him to give me a scan at least of the thing. He's kept it, and even if he showed it to anyone, I'd be damned proud of it. I have an image in my mind of giving it to a grand-daughter or great-granddaughter someday when I'm old and toothless.

 

[Raerae]

Yup...

Learned this one the hard way. I'm sure there is some topless vids of me floating around back when i got topless of my webcam for a boyfriend a few times. I didn't know you could record webcam at that time (was pretty web-stupid at that time). And then he sent me one, and was like Look what I made!

No idea what every happened to those... Don't really care, was just topless. And the quality was really really bad.

Even today I'm wary of haveing sex at someone's house other than mine if were not that involved yet. Never know what kind of webcam, or video cam they have setup in their room. For all you know, the one night stand with the cute guy at the bar is now availible for everyone to see for $19.99 a month.

 

[melliquor]

I would never to it. You can never tell what will happen later on. My husband isn't the kind of person to get revenge on me like that anyways but I still wouldn't do it.

 

[Beauty Mark]

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Originally Posted by Raerae Yup... Learned this one the hard way. I'm sure there is some topless vids of me floating around back when i got topless of my webcam for a boyfriend a few times. I didn't know you could record webcam at that time (was pretty web-stupid at that time). And then he sent me one, and was like Look what I made! No idea what every happened to those... Don't really care, was just topless. And the quality was really really bad. Even today I'm wary of haveing sex at someone's house other than mine if were not that involved yet. Never know what kind of webcam, or video cam they have setup in their room. For all you know, the one night stand with the cute guy at the bar is now availible for everyone to see for $19.99 a month.

Yeah, a lot of people have secret cameras set up. It's really, really difficult to find them, unless you know to look and can practically rip apart a room

 

[giz2000]

I have been married for a long time, and I have never let even my husband take naked pictures of me. It's not that I don't trust him...it's just that I don't go for that...and one never knows what can happen in the future...better safe than sorry.

 

[dollbabybex]

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Originally Posted by ZLoves2Shop That is Very important message! I have always warned people about things like that. You may think that it's innocent or that your mate loves you so much that they wouldn't share them with anybody, but I say trust no one! Keep in mind: Unless you are pursuing a job in porn, nude modeling or as a stripper, this can ruin your reputation and/or your career.

im a stripper tho...but i still wouldnt let anyone film it or picture it?
the dance i do for a customer is 3 minutes in a booth away from prying eyes (besides theres) and if they ever got a camera out...id get it confsicated (sp?)

in regards to it not effecting my career...whilst im a stripper...no it wouldnt. but when i pursue my dream career it might then.

 

[thestarsfall]

Along the same lines: If you are going to put stuff in storage for a while be sure to pay your rent at the storage facility. I worked at a Mini-Storage and I had to clean out all the abandoned units where the rent had gone unpaid for a long long time and there were some rather uh...disturbing photos in the one...

I have to go through all the boxes too to do an inventory and see if anything is sellable or just trash.