Resolution "LOW-BUY" 2014! Who wants to play?

[NaomiH]

Glad @Serenityy showed me this thread. I need to stop buying cause of the packaging and because it looks good on my vanity. I need to buy only what I will use and purge the rest!

Same here, I went real over board with RiRi Fall. All I wanted was the two liners and TTT and ended up with everything but the palettes and brush. WTF?

 

[IHughes]

I'm feeling proud because I had two backups (by mistake as my mum bought them and I already had them) and I have sold them! I have lost quite a bit of money doing so but at least I feel better as I'd never go through all those lipsticks and they'd go to waste! Someone else can give them the love they deserve!

 

[bvenice1920]

Same here, I went real over board with RiRi Fall. All I wanted was the two liners and TTT and ended up with everything but the palettes and brush. WTF?

Yes I got items that I know I wouldnt use so I sold all but the nude and the riri woo. I am pretty happy with myself.

 

[trina11225]

i'm in too, six to 10 items for the year 2014, that doesn't mean that i don't enjoy my stash now, just don't need the whole store. Shopping my stash, will be fun.

 

[LinenWhite7]

I got a $25 credit for Kohl's in my email and my first thought was to get makeup. We don't really need anything, but I'm sure that $25 would be better spent on clothes for my growing kids or a household item. Lorac Unzipped and theBalm Instain blushes can definitely wait. But in the past I wouldn't have hesitated to use that credit for makeup.

 

[bvenice1920]

I got a $25 credit for Kohl's in my email and my first thought was to get makeup. We don't really need anything, but I'm sure that $25 would be better spent on clothes for my growing kids or a household item. Lorac Unzipped and theBalm Instain blushes can definitely wait. But in the past I wouldn't have hesitated to use that credit for makeup.

Good Job stay strong my friend!

 

[Spikesmom]

On the flip side, I went to Sephora for their $20 coupon thing. I got to the register with my items, and they told me I'd already used my coupon (Husband did). I was kind of embarrassed actually. And kind of pissed off that Sephora kept telling me via email to use my coupon. I bought one item for $30 with tax, left, and then wondered if Sephora had done that on purpose (kept sending me the email to make me think I still hadn't used the coupon - knowing that many customers would be too embarassed, etc to walk away withouth their products?). HMMMMM.

I got the Sephora email after I had used my coupon too. I don't think it was a sinister plot though, just bad timing. On the subject of the coupon, I finally got my order yesterday. I bought two new palettes and they are gorgeous, but I didn't need them!! I used one of them this morning and felt so guilty and sick about it. I'm going to force myself to go through older products and purge so I don't feel so bad.

 

[babygirlLAH]

Reading how others want to join in this thread made me look back at my huge stash of items I am not using and now I'm planning on putting them in the clearance bin. I'm just having a hard time letting go, lol. Guess it's the hoarder in me.

But I need to let go. Others need to use this stuff that clearly I am not showing love too before they just go to waste. And I'm sure my bf will love my vanity area to be less cluttered with items I have no use for.

2014 low buy bring it on!!!
LOL.

 

[vamua703]

I need to get in on this. I like the idea of a small amount of items from the LE collections. That's a great way to start. I'm hoping that in 2014 I'll be able to spend my money on buying diapers (my husband and I are looking to have another baby) instead of on makeup.

 

[User38]

oh dear! this is one thread where I belong -- at least my heart and soul do.

There was a time I was buying more makeup as a dose of happiness for my soul. In 3 years I have lost my husband, my only sister, my two dogs and many friends. It seemed like makeup was my solution to easing that pain. I don't drink, do drugs, or many other vices -- but if I had, I would have the same regrets.

In the 3 years I have lived on 3 continents.. lost and seeking home. A few months ago, I hit bottom and realized that my home was where my heart was and that was back home with my mother who is aging and who needs my love and attention. This is not to say I have not traveled extensively for work -- I try to stay away from DF shops. lol.

as for my stash -- I realized that what I had left behind in Miami was still in great condition, some things were damaged (watch out for too many lipglosses/lipsticks). I threw these away with a happy heart because I realized that I was getting to that point in my life where happiness is not comprised of me looking any particular way, but how happy my heart was. I gave much away to young MUAs who need to build up their stash. I have kept some which is still considerable. My work put me in the epicenter of this hurricane of buying for all my looks -- real or imagined.

I have always been an investor and now I am just buying what I see I really need. I know first hand how much profit is made by the big cosmetic companies and have decided that if I make money from them, I will not give it back to them. I no longer purchase anything for the packaging or any kind of hype. We creeate our needs, we let others create our wants.



I set aside money for future real estate ventures as well as my future 6 month sabatical -- but that will be awhile. I cannot leave my mother alone for that long.

Some purchases were made: Chanel Accent, Emotion recently -- some lippies to replace some of my existing or damaged items. Some highliters -- still my achilles heel!

I refuse to buy MAC for now --I cannot handle the stress of "missing out" -- on what I do not know. But still, that's the merchandising pill we all take. I myself have been responsible for much of it and it pains me to know this. Cheerleading ourselves into financial or emotional stress/ happines is one sure way to die young but with painted lips in the latest shades! oh yea

there are so many issues with this low buy, or no buy for a while -- in my case I did a cold turkey and now have eased back into a more comfortable pace.

I no longer feel I have to "treat" myself, and prefer to treat others to other things - books, trips, necessary things.

Cosmetics is still my world.. my metier and my bette noir.. but will I let that rule my life. Not anymore.

will hang in and hang tough.. and one of these days post pics of my still ginormous stash.

meawhile.. thanks Pixidancer and all the lovely ladies who are participating. It is a great way to get our lives and spending under control.

xoxox

HG

 

[Glitteryvegas]

oh dear! this is one thread where I belong -- at least my heart and soul do.

There was a time I was buying more makeup as a dose of happiness for my soul. In 3 years I have lost my husband, my only sister, my two dogs and many friends. It seemed like makeup was my solution to easing that pain. I don't drink, do drugs, or many other vices -- but if I had, I would have the same regrets.

In the 3 years I have lived on 3 continents.. lost and seeking home. A few months ago, I hit bottom and realized that my home was where my heart was and that was back home with my mother who is aging and who needs my love and attention. This is not to say I have not traveled extensively for work -- I try to stay away from DF shops. lol.

as for my stash -- I realized that what I had left behind in Miami was still in great condition, some things were damaged (watch out for too many lipglosses/lipsticks). I threw these away with a happy heart because I realized that I was getting to that point in my life where happiness is not comprised of me looking any particular way, but how happy my heart was. I gave much away to young MUAs who need to build up their stash. I have kept some which is still considerable. My work put me in the epicenter of this hurricane of buying for all my looks -- real or imagined.

I have always been an investor and now I am just buying what I see I really need. I know first hand how much profit is made by the big cosmetic companies and have decided that if I make money from them, I will not give it back to them. I no longer purchase anything for the packaging or any kind of hype. We creeate our needs, we let others create our wants.



I set aside money for future real estate ventures as well as my future 6 month sabatical -- but that will be awhile. I cannot leave my mother alone for that long.

Some purchases were made: Chanel Accent, Emotion recently -- some lippies to replace some of my existing or damaged items. Some highliters -- still my achilles heel!

I refuse to buy MAC for now --I cannot handle the stress of "missing out" -- on what I do not know. But still, that's the merchandising pill we all take. I myself have been responsible for much of it and it pains me to know this. Cheerleading ourselves into financial or emotional stress/ happines is one sure way to die young but with painted lips in the latest shades! oh yea

there are so many issues with this low buy, or no buy for a while -- in my case I did a cold turkey and now have eased back into a more comfortable pace.

I no longer feel I have to "treat" myself, and prefer to treat others to other things - books, trips, necessary things.

Cosmetics is still my world.. my metier and my bette noir.. but will I let that rule my life. Not anymore.

will hang in and hang tough.. and one of these days post pics of my still ginormous stash.

meawhile.. thanks Pixidancer and all the lovely ladies who are participating. It is a great way to get our lives and spending under control.

xoxox

HG

WOW! You have an amazing story - thank you so much for sharing with us. You have experienced many unimaginable losses and still seem very positive, upbeat, humble - Thank you, thank you, thank you.

When you said that We create our needs, others create our wants, that really resonated with me. I agree - sometimes just avoiding collections entirely and not paying attention to the hype is really the answer, at least until we have moved away from 'mindless' collecting and can reign in our impulses. I also totally agree about how we choose to reward ourselves - there are other ways to reward ourselves rather than consumer goods - things & memories that will last a lifetime. These are things that I need to put into practice for 2014!

 

[Naynadine]

HerGreyness!

So nice to see you. That was a great post, I can relate in many ways. And I'd love to see your stash!

 

[Glitteryvegas]

I got the Sephora email after I had used my coupon too. I don't think it was a sinister plot though, just bad timing. On the subject of the coupon, I finally got my order yesterday. I bought two new palettes and they are gorgeous, but I didn't need them!! I used one of them this morning and felt so guilty and sick about it. I'm going to force myself to go through older products and purge so I don't feel so bad.

I know that feeling. Today is a new day and a new chance to stick to your goals! Don't feel bad, this is a learning experience & just like everything else - a process that will take a bit of time.

I did LOL about the 'sinister plot' wording hehe. It did feel sinister but I'm sure it was just a glitch!

 

[fur4elise]

I'm In!

Chuckle...I actually abstained for much of 2013, simply because I was not impressed with the new MAC releases.

I did splurge this year on Urban Decay. The Ocho Loco 2 24/7 pencil set & the Naked 3 Palette to accompany the first two!

So I hazard a guess I won't be buying much MAC for 2014...saving for new, unsusal, cool LE mineralize skinfinishes.
Same with UD...

Truth is I have waaaaay tooooo much sitting around not getting any love...and makeup does not last forever. So I will be "shopping" in my personal stash this coming year...It's kind of like shopping in your clothing/shoe/accessory closet..."Oh yeah...I forgot about that handbag or those boots or that skirt...Wow! Still brand new! LOL!

Happy Holidays!

 

[Baby1black]

Same here, I went real over board with RiRi Fall. All I wanted was the two liners and TTT and ended up with everything but the palettes and brush. WTF?

Me too. I decided not to buy a thing for the riri holiday but I'm still lemming bgrr. I'm trying to convince myself I have glamourdaze but its not working.

 

[NaomiH]

Me too. I decided not to buy a thing for the riri holiday but I'm still lemming bgrr. I'm trying to convince myself I have glamourdaze but its not working.

I didn't get anything either except a RRW for my friend as a gift. I am loving the look of BGRR also, but I just don't want to put in the effort of tracking it down, especially since I know it will rarely get used since I don't go for nude colours very often.

 

[User38]

Naynadine.. thank you! Missed you !

Thank you Glittery!.. life from my little corner.

 

[SleepingBeauty]

@HerGreyness: First of all, I'm sorry for your losses! Many hugs. Then again; this is such a true and inspiring post! You're really telling the truth. We have to decide what we need and want since everyone knows best for themselves. As for my goal in 2014 - I don't want to do a no-buy (wouldn't work for me at all - let's be honest), I just want to buy things I haven't got already, e.g. a good black liner instead of the 20th rosy lipstick. As I've already mentioned in my first post, I need to cut down on my spendings on lipstick. Maybe I can live with getting only one to two items per month. Not more. We'll see but first of all, I need to get the Riri collection out of the way and then I have to take care of Magnetic Nude.

 

[missboss82]

I'm in, I tried a no-buy for 2013 and failed miserably. I actually try to stay away from Specktra, because I usually want items that I originally would not have even considered. My goal for 2014 is to only purchase essential items, such as foundation, and foundation, lol. I have more than enough makeup to last two lifetimes. So now that I am officially holding myself accountable, my goal is to not purchase anything makeup related for the first few months of 2014.

 

[Glitteryvegas]

UGHHHHH What a terrible day for my impulses. I bought 3 Lit Cosmetics glitters online and hopefully they are still running the fourth glitter free promo (if not, I just get the three and were charged for three). I can't believe their shipping is $10 when I live in the province next to them. *Sigh*

<--------- ME

Tomorrow I can start all over again. In a good way.