xxainixx
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edit(nov 09)-HURRY TO PAGE 4! xD
alright. lets start.
it all began here .
http://specktra.net/f262/i-really-ne...dvance-100984/
Im SO stupid for not listening to the advices given out. but let's fast forward 1mth after that. we were together as a couple.
fast forward to about 4-5 mth later which is now. IM CONFUSED.
some of you are right. a relationship built on lies are not reliable.
but this 4-5 mth rolled about blissfully nothing major happened.
it;s just that, every single time there is an argument, he WONT GIVE IN. i always believe a relationship is about gives and takes.
and yes, he's pretty abusive(physically) but it's mild. he doesnt hit me too badly but over the months, it's about 3 times MAX. the thing is, his mum talked to me about it and said that he DOES hit ALL of his ex-girlfriends. and some have left him because of this. ( his mum likes to exaggerate things ) but when i asked him, he said, nope. i didnt, i just could not control myself sometimes with you.
he's really conceited, and sexist, always believeing women are the weaker sex.
it's just that, these few days, im really depressed. im not sure of the reason. it just.... came. i started suspecting this and that. im getting paranoid.
there are pros and cons regarding him. i've just listed out the cons.
sorry the story is in bits and pieces, im really mentally exhausted. there's no one i can turn to except here, where i've seen there are lots of wonderful helpful people...
alright. lets start.
it all began here .
http://specktra.net/f262/i-really-ne...dvance-100984/
Im SO stupid for not listening to the advices given out. but let's fast forward 1mth after that. we were together as a couple.
fast forward to about 4-5 mth later which is now. IM CONFUSED.
some of you are right. a relationship built on lies are not reliable.
but this 4-5 mth rolled about blissfully nothing major happened.
it;s just that, every single time there is an argument, he WONT GIVE IN. i always believe a relationship is about gives and takes.
and yes, he's pretty abusive(physically) but it's mild. he doesnt hit me too badly but over the months, it's about 3 times MAX. the thing is, his mum talked to me about it and said that he DOES hit ALL of his ex-girlfriends. and some have left him because of this. ( his mum likes to exaggerate things ) but when i asked him, he said, nope. i didnt, i just could not control myself sometimes with you.
he's really conceited, and sexist, always believeing women are the weaker sex.
it's just that, these few days, im really depressed. im not sure of the reason. it just.... came. i started suspecting this and that. im getting paranoid.
there are pros and cons regarding him. i've just listed out the cons.
sorry the story is in bits and pieces, im really mentally exhausted. there's no one i can turn to except here, where i've seen there are lots of wonderful helpful people...