Family-owned property (his). That, and it would be uncomfortable (for both of us, especially me) to just be roommates after everything we've been through. I was so in my feelings yesterday because it's VERY fresh. Thanks to the ladies here and from my "in-person" buddies, I got my mind right and reminded myself that I am capable of doing what I need to do to survive this whether it's get a 2nd job or whatever. My Beyonce Breakover playlist didn't hurt either, LOL. I decided I won't rush into moving to just any old apartment since that would be a recipe for unnecessary disaster (did that once and it sucked balls). He & I are supposed to talk the situation over later this week in order to make this transition easier. It's awkward but I am putting on my big girl panties and doing what needs to be done. I have a ton of emotions swirling but logic, strength and a clear head are what I need to have now. Thanks to all of you for your kind words! One of the many reasons I LOVE Specktra.